A little while ago, there was an “ugh...” type of question that ~-chan had hidden from specific users, but shouldn’t the staff have known about the connections between members and warned that woman?
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Couldn’t they have seen that coming?
I want to register again, but since my papa (a male supporter) also has connections with other members, I don’t feel I can trust the staff.
People who go out of their way to use a friend to check a specific woman’s profile are probably in the minority.
I think it’s completely misplaced for the staff to be blamed or criticized because of people like that.
Akari
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Is there any connection between a papa’s network of contacts and the staff’s credibility?
No, not at all.
To begin with, I don’t think the staff even knows about the connections between male members. Even if you hide someone from your profile, it’s easy for women to understand that information could still get out if that papa has male friends, right?
Marika
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪
This is something you may think you understand, but you can never fully grasp it. Women’s networks can be hard to see too, right?
For men as well, connections continue indefinitely—not only through introductions, but through friends of friends.
It’s probably best to accept that this is simply impossible to prevent.
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I’m Kazu, a male club member.
Why should the staff have to perfectly cover for a liar’s alibi? That premise is flawed.
Thinking the way you do is what I’d call taking your frustration out on others.
Why didn’t you realize that a man might have relationships the club staff aren’t aware of?
For what it’s worth, I also have several connections that the club staff probably don’t know about.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
I’ve made a partial revision to the question.
> Even though the staff should be aware of connections between members...
Are they really aware of them?
Do you mean that a man would actually tell the staff, “Even if you hide me from him specifically, he’ll find out because this other man is still viewing my profile”?
If someone tells them that, then of course they can keep track of it. But normally, people wouldn’t tell them, would they?
So I think some staff members may be aware of these connections, but they don’t know everything.
Rather, I think they probably explain it like, “Even if you hide your profile from him specifically, he may find out through his male friends.”
> My papa also has connections with other members.
Have you told the staff about that?
Even if someone says they can’t trust me because I’m giving them incorrect information, all I can say is, “Well, what can I do?”
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’m sure even the staff don’t really know who’s connected to whom, and they can’t keep track of everything...
Besides, let’s plan our lives so we don’t have to be so desperate, and enjoy papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with some breathing room（笑）
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
> Universe, do you realize you’re ruining women’s lives?
Then they simply shouldn’t join, should they?
If you think it’ll be worthwhile, join. And making it worthwhile is up to you.
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