I registered as Dating Type C and have received a fair number of offers, but every single one was from a stingy (and sleazy) older man who could only offer ¥50,000 per meeting.

I’m Aya, a female member. I was a B, and the first person to make me an offer really was like a dream—he offered ¥90,000 just for dinner. It’s not that I’ve never gone to a hotel on the first date, but those arrangements only lasted about a year at most. The papas I became intimate with on the second or third date have continued for years, and of course, they’re not the kind who only offer ¥50,000 per meeting. So personally, I recommend being a B. *This is just my personal opinion, so it may not apply to everyone…

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ I think 5 would be fine too…? Are you working for someone or something? Think of the allowance as payment for what you’re able to do during the time you spend together—like performance-based pay. Don’t ask for 10 or 20 when you can’t really offer much. And relationship scams are a no-go. ☆ Papuwa, people in the countryside can be incredibly resentful. Whenever I buy clothes or my child buys a 250cc mid-sized motorcycle with money they earned from a part-time job, my husband says, “You’re pretty rich, huh?” He even says, “If you have money, give me some.” I told my older sister that yesterday, and she said, “You should leave him（笑）.” Hearing it from her made me think I really should leave him after all. You shouldn’t put up with too much either ♡

I’m also a Type C, but when I ask myself whether I’m really worth ¥50,000, I don’t feel that I am, and I’d feel bad accepting that much, so I don’t ask for a high allowance. That said, I’ve never met anyone stingy or unpleasant—everyone has been a wonderful gentleman. On the other hand, even if someone offers more than I’m asking for, I won’t continue seeing him if his behavior makes me feel stressed when we’re together. I don’t think whether you meet someone wonderful depends on your dating type. Marika

I’m Osaka, a male member. >He was a stingy (and unpleasant) older man who could only offer ¥50,000 on a pay-per-meeting basis. As someone who has also found the information here very helpful, I’d like to say this: at the very least, people who make comments like that are completely out of line. Ideally, I’d want women to avoid dating even those who merely hide these true feelings. At the same time, it does make me wonder if this is simply the reality for women, which is a sobering thought. Doesn’t this also lead men to tighten their purse strings? If that kind of attitude came across in a business deal, it would be a serious problem. Even if someone hid what they really thought, it would inevitably show through in the details of their day-to-day dealings and behavior, making it difficult to maintain the relationship. If another company’s standards and work ethic are poor, it can create opportunities when it benefits your own company. But if there are too many companies like that, the entire industry or field may end up being cut off, which can ultimately have negative consequences. From the perspective of the female members as a whole, isn’t this post dangerous? - People who feel the same way - People who see it as an opportunity - People who think, “Not everyone is like this” - People who feel inconvenienced by being viewed with suspicion - People who think, “Don’t come to B,” lol Am I overthinking this? As for answering the original question, I suppose it comes down to saying, “Do whatever you want.” But I do wish people would be a little more mindful of the words they use.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I think that’s a good way to look at it. However, please don’t select Type B and then give the impression that you’re suspected of misrepresenting your dating type. If you like someone, pursue a relationship with them. If you don’t, politely decline. Please be clear and firm about that.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. You come across as nothing more than a greedy, money-grabbing woman. If you’re lucky, you may meet a man you find wonderful, regardless of your usual type.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Why not try switching to Type B? Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses, so there’s no one-size-fits-all answer that a particular type will work better for everyone.