There probably isn’t any fixed market rate, but there are quite a few generous (well-paying) papas who give an allowance of around 200,000 yen. Since many offer 100,000 yen, I don’t consider someone generous just because they offer around 100,000 yen.
I’ve been reading the answers on the anonymous Q&A box and have always thought that many of the respondents are low-paying papas. The respondents seem like nice people too, but generous papas are on another level! I’ve dated low-paying papas before as well, but the people I’ve had long-term, close, and fulfilling relationships with have been generous papas. I’m still close with a papa who went from being low-paying to generous. I’m already perfectly satisfied being surrounded by generous papas, so I’m not making this up or exaggerating.
Have none of you ever heard stories about generous papas directly from women? Maybe this is the kind of papa-katsu world you can only understand once you’ve become a generous papa.
“I’ll stay with you for life, right to the very end.” That’s what the person featured on last night’s TV show about reviving struggling businesses said. I’m Kamihikoki, a male member who treats the women I see with that same feeling.
I think it’s up to each person to decide what counts as a generous papa.
From what I know, some girls receive 40,000 yen for one meal, and some receive 50,000. Even so, if it’s only once or twice a month, maybe that doesn’t make someone a generous papa…
More than being called a generous papa, I’d be happier if she could honestly express her喜怒哀楽 and frustrations to me without holding back…
Wait, maybe she’s just taking out her stress on me by bullying someone weaker…
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I’m a low-paying papa (lol). I do hear women talk about generous (well-paying) papas, but everyone’s different, so I just listen and think, “Huh, wow,” and leave it at that. There’s no point comparing yourself to other men.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Haven’t any of you ever heard stories about generous (well-paying) papas from the women themselves?
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Unfortunately, I never have (sobs).
They leave the club, so I don’t get the chance to hear them.
Or perhaps the women I’m seeing prioritize safety and peace of mind, and don’t need a generous (well-paying) papa…
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Also, Fuu the low-paying papa（笑）
Since allowance amounts are up to each person, you must be exceptionally beautiful, questioner. Impressive.
That said, would someone who’s genuinely having such a great time really say this here without showing any gratitude? If you’re satisfied, I feel like you wouldn’t deliberately put it this way.
A dating club can feel like a dream world where you might meet a generous papa (well-paying), but unfortunately, that isn’t the case for every woman.
All female members should stay level-headed and carefully assess both reality and themselves. If you set your terms at 10 every time, you may end up with offers that never lead to an actual arrangement—a sad outcome—so please be careful.
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