Our usual dates last about three hours, from afternoon to early evening. If the opportunity arose, I’d also consider an overnight date, but from a woman’s perspective, how does an overnight date feel emotionally? Is it mainly a matter of the allowance, or does it depend on the man’s personality?
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For an overnight date, I’m thinking of offering an allowance about 30% higher than for a daytime-only date—is that reasonable?
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Thirty percent more than what allowance amount?
Don’t tell me you mean 30,000 yen…?
If it’s an overnight stay, it’s better to be with someone you’re already comfortable with.
Wouldn’t it be awful to see each other’s flaws, get turned off, and end up going home?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think staying overnight is pretty difficult unless you’ve become quite close. And with only about a 30% increase in the allowance, some women may feel it isn’t worth it. Unless you’ve genuinely grown close—close enough for her to say, “I want to go on a trip with you!”—the risk is high.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
When it comes to spending the night, I think a lot depends on whether the woman feels safe and can trust you.
Some women want a higher allowance for it, while others don’t.
For now, wouldn’t it be best to go on a few more dates and get to know each other better?
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