After we got to the hotel, I gave her the allowance (both hands’ worth), and after showering, just as we were about to get into bed, she suddenly imposed all kinds of restrictions: no kissing or cunnilingus, no fellatio, certain positions were off-limits, and so on.
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My gut feeling is that she was trying to take advantage of the man’s pride by using things she wouldn’t do as bargaining chips, hoping he’d lose interest or decide it was too much trouble and say, “I’ll give you the allowance, so just go home”—ending things without doing anything, if possible. I got the impression she was a repeat offender.
What would you do in this situation?
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Maybe he’s trying to avoid STIs?
If you don’t want to go on a second date, I think it’s fine not to.
That’s really disappointing. I think it would be okay to lower the allowance.
You could also leave a brief comment for the staff.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, one of the male members.
I’ve had this kind of awkward mishap happen to me too. In my case, after the bath, one of us went to bed while the other put on his underwear and got ready to leave… lol.
Well, live and learn!
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I’m Dai, a male member.
With nearly 7,000 members, there are bound to be women like that.
You may feel empty afterward since you did what you went there to do, but I’d just decide not to continue and move on to the next person.
On the way home, I might even check the Universe website and start looking for the next woman to make an offer to.
But if you’re a Platinum member or above, why not ask the club staff about her when you’re making the offer?
A staff member I’m close with has been very straightforward, telling me they wouldn’t recommend someone because she seemed like a person to avoid.
And wouldn’t you get the impression that she might be that kind of woman even during dinner?
If you don’t notice anything at all, you may want to lament your lack of observational skills.
My guess is that she only reluctantly went along with this because the allowance was ¥20,000.
I offer less than that, but I’ve never been treated that way.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
I agree—if someone said that to you, I’d find it pretty unpleasant too.
Even so, what you said doesn’t seem particularly serious, so it’s hard to understand why she said that.
If she were a repeat offender, I’d expect the club to terminate her membership fairly quickly. But there weren’t any comments warning that she was someone to avoid, right? I also think women like that are extremely rare.
Even if you leave feedback, you can’t really comment on anything beyond what happened during the evening...
If there’s any other information that might be useful to future male members or the club, I think it would be worth including that in your feedback.
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