I’m a male member. I’ve met around 10 women I was attracted to through this site, but I still haven’t met anyone I genuinely want to keep seeing. Ideally, I’d like a long-term relationship.

I’m Fuu, a column writer. I understand how you feel. Even for me, it usually takes around 10 offers before I meet someone I’m genuinely happy with—sometimes I don’t find that person at all. That said, as long as she’s clean and the intimate side is satisfying, the rest can improve over time. If you become a high priority for her, things may get better. Meet consistently and regularly, pay close attention to her, avoid doing things she dislikes or that put pressure on her, treat her well, add to her allowance, and never be half-hearted about your dates. If things still don’t change or improve, you’ll have to make more offers and keep looking.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Your ideal for the woman you want to date is simply too high. At the dating club, I often tell female members that the men who appear before them are a reflection of themselves. Applied to male members, this means that the women who appear before you are a reflection of yourself. If you ask a woman, “Would you be interested in dating me?” and she says, “Sure!” then that’s the start of a long-term relationship. First, take a careful look at yourself and ask, “Do I have what I’m looking for in a dating partner?” Only then should you expect those qualities from the other person.

I didn’t see anything particularly idealistic in what you listed—it all sounded perfectly normal and reasonable. Are there really that many people who can’t meet those basic expectations? Maybe that’s why, even at my age, I’ve been fortunate enough to meet people and maintain good relationships. This may not answer your question, but those are such basic things that I didn’t think your standards were high at all. I hope you find someone good. Marika

I’m Dai, a male member. ① Usually works and is financially independent ⇒ I think you should make offers to women like that. ② Enjoys conversation ⇒ Given the age gap, it’s not easy to hit it off right away. You may also need to make an effort to keep the conversation flowing. ③ Responds quickly ⇒ It’s normal for casual messages to get slow replies. They’re not professional women doing sales, after all… That said, many women seem to be quick to respond when it comes to scheduling. ④ Doesn’t ask for presents ⇒ Aren’t you making offers to college students? If you make offers to women in their mid-20s or older, you’ll find far fewer who do that. ⑤ Good physical chemistry ⇒ That also depends on your own technique. ⑥ Has good personal hygiene ⇒ You’ll know once you’ve been intimate. In my experience, very few women have had an unpleasant odor. I think luck also plays a part in meeting someone who checks all the boxes. Points ②, ③, and ⑤ also depend on how you conduct yourself, so there’s no one-size-fits-all answer.

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ ・Usually works and is financially independent ・Fun to talk to ・Responds quickly (Responds to scheduling messages within 24 hours) ・Doesn’t ask for gifts ・Good physical compatibility (Not someone who forces herself to act, but a woman who genuinely seems to desire you instinctively) ・Good personal hygiene (No unpleasant odor down there, and clear skin) I thought these were the bare minimum, but I guess not… Why not try making offers to women from Gold tier and above, across a wider age range? This is what happens when you only make offers to young girls. Try meeting about 20 more of them ♡

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well. If it were that easy to find someone like that, Universe Club wouldn’t have grown this big（笑） I think the usual approach is to make more offers and keep looking. >・She normally works properly and is financially independent You can tell this from her profile, so you’ll know before making an offer. >・She’s fun to talk to You can get an idea from the staff’s comments, and I think the concierge service can help with that too. (That said, even if the staff find her fun, the questioner may not feel the same way.) >・She has good personal hygiene (no odor down there, clear skin) As long as someone is alive, there will naturally be some scent down there. If you’re demanding complete odorlessness, I suspect they’re using some kind of product to eliminate it, which would actually make me more nervous. Maybe the questioner is simply overly sensitive about this. If your sense of smell is weak, then you may have a better chance of finding someone who meets that standard. But with a normal sense of smell, I think you need to decide what you’re willing to accept. You can probably judge how clear her skin is from her profile photos. However, this also depends on how high a standard you’re looking for, so you may want to consider whether you’re being too demanding. >・You’re physically compatible (a woman who genuinely desires you instinctively rather than merely putting on an act) I’m not sure what you mean by “instinctively desires you,” but wouldn’t that also depend on how you normally treat her and on the foreplay? Do you perhaps expect her to get aroused without you doing anything? If you repeatedly gave her 10 million yen whenever she instinctively desired you, then maybe the Pavlovian effect would kick in and she’d get aroused whenever you showed her 10 million yen—but I really don’t understand what you’re looking for. Is this science fiction? Also, perhaps you sometimes assume she’s acting even when she isn’t. That said, there are certainly women who are obviously acting, so I’m not sure which type you’re referring to. >・She responds quickly (contacts you about scheduling within 24 hours) If all you need is a response about scheduling, you’d normally expect to hear back within that timeframe. Even if she can’t give a definite answer right away, if you let her know, she’ll probably at least respond with something like, “I’m checking my schedule” or “I’ll confirm and get back to you.” >・She doesn’t ask for gifts I don’t think many women openly ask for gifts. Unless, perhaps, you’ve been talking in your usual conversations about buying gifts for women?

I’m in Seattle. My goal is to get offers from 20 people. Surely I’ll meet someone among them.

I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane. Other than the final point—being well-groomed—I think you should first consider whether you might also be contributing to the problem. In particular: - Respond quickly (reply to scheduling messages within 24 hours) - Don’t ask for presents If the questioner is liked, these two things generally won’t be an issue. Conversely, if they do become an issue, you need to consider that it may be because the questioner wasn’t liked. If you meet 10 people, you should be receiving offers from people who think your work, type, and profile are a perfect fit, so I think at least one of them should be able to continue seeing you. From there, by making offers to another 10 or 20 people, you may eventually find someone you can continue seeing—perhaps one in 30 or even one in 100. Not being able to continue with even one woman out of the 10 or more you’ve chosen based on your preferences is a serious problem.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I understand. I made offers to dozens of women before I found the right one, too. I think your expectations may be both high and overly demanding. In particular, when you say you want to feel that she desires you instinctively, I think it would be better to see that as a challenge: you need to become someone who can inspire that kind of instinctive desire. In other words, I think you simply haven’t reached the level where you can have the kind of relationship you’re looking for.