Tips Sep 18, 2021 18:10

I’m the person who asked the question about not being able to feel grateful. Thank you for your answers.

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I’d like to reply to everyone individually, but that would make this very long, so please let me respond all at once. Thank you. Flag Maker, your answer described me exactly. I’m bad at asking for favors and showing my weaknesses to others. I run away from people’s kindness. I’ve been this way for as long as I can remember—ever since elementary school, whenever someone was kind to me, I would burst into tears. I’m someone who is vulnerable to other people’s kindness. How did you figure me out so well...? Have you had someone like this close to you? How did you notice it? (It apparently won’t be published unless there’s a question, so I’d really like to hear your answer.) Osaka I once developed depression after dwelling on what it meant to live in the past, and ended up seeing a psychiatrist, so I’ve been trying not to think about it. I’m still receiving treatment, so I’ll think about it once I’ve recovered. Mac, Shingori, and Maezawa I’d never heard of the idea of starting with the form of gratitude. I’ll try beginning with expressing gratitude outwardly. When I searched online for “people who can’t feel grateful,” I could find their “characteristics,” but not any specific ways to improve, so your answers were incredibly helpful. Thank you, everyone. I feel much lighter now. I’ll read through your answers again and again until I can truly accept them. I hope that someday I’ll be able to write an answer like yours myself.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well. As for my gratitude… thank you very much.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a flag-maker by profession as a columnist. I just imagined several possible scenarios, thought, “Maybe it’s this one?” and took a shot—and happened to be right. Since my work involves imagining what other people are thinking and setting up those flags, I’m fairly good at that kind of imagination. I also enjoy tarot reading. In reality, each card can be interpreted in many different ways, and you can’t interpret it correctly without imagining the other person’s personality and circumstances. That requires imagination too. Even when it involves someone else’s life, thinking about and imagining what they’re going through adds to my own experience. The various questions here also help sharpen my imagination, as do my rather shameless efforts to get closer to women. But more than anything, it comes from my own experience of being put through the wringer. It’s not as though I enjoy going through all that, but since it happened anyway, I might as well make good use of it. The questioner already has a sense of gratitude as they are. In fact, their gratitude is probably stronger than most people’s. It just takes something fairly significant for them to express it. When you’re more serious than other people and can’t lie to yourself, life can be pretty difficult. But if they can keep that fundamental nature while also developing the skills to get along in the world, I think they’ll become a truly wonderful person.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. Thank you for your answer! We’re happy because that alone means you’ve already made progress. Even though we don’t know each other’s faces, names, or ages, it feels good to be able to exchange words of thanks. Please don’t push yourself. You still have a long life ahead of you, so take your time and do what you can when the timing feels right. I learned something from this too. Thank you!\(^o^)/
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. I think everyone has times when they feel down. Meeting people and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can be enjoyable and uplifting, so I hope you have plenty of good encounters.
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