Does being told I’m hard to read or that people can’t tell what I’m thinking mean I’m not making a good impression?

I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. > Does saying I’m hard to read or that people can’t tell what I’m thinking mean they don’t have a good impression of me? I think it means you seem mysterious and they’d like to spend more time with you. > I feel like I express myself through my smile and other things, so maybe I’m actually pretty easy to read? Even if that’s how you see yourself, the other person may still be thinking, “I wonder why she’s making that expression right now?” But I think that’s part of your charm, so there’s no need to worry about it. Just keep being yourself.

I’m Dai, a male member. Being hard to read and not knowing what she’s thinking may not necessarily be a bad thing when it comes to keeping the relationship going. The woman I see most often is like that. I still feel like I haven’t figured her out yet, which makes me want to see her again. There are also men like me who, once we get too close, start thinking, “Maybe I don’t need to make plans to see her again right away,” or “Maybe it’s okay to leave a little time between meetings…”

I’m in Seattle. So he’s naturally a poker-faced person, huh? Personally, I prefer someone who’s more expressive. At the very least, I’d like to see a smile.

I’m Taro, a male club member. They probably sense that you’re trying to make them feel comfortable. From a man’s perspective, it can seem like you’re accommodating them in a way. That’s nice in itself, but when this continues and they can’t tell what you really think or how you truly feel, they may end up making comments like that. If your relationships at the club have lasted for more than six months, I think that means you’re attractive enough. You should take being called mysterious as a compliment. The fact that even your boyfriend has said the same thing suggests that you’re not putting on an act for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan); rather, you naturally have a personality that makes your true feelings hard to read. You should mention that past boyfriends have said the same thing. That way, men will probably understand that this is simply who you are. It’s up to the man to make the effort to get closer to the true nature of a mysterious woman. I don’t think you need to worry about it—just be yourself.