Tips Sep 12, 2021 13:19

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I’m a married female member. About five or six years ago, I had an affair with someone I met through an app, and he turned out to be quite the pervert. He was the type who would stimulate my clitoris with an electric massager while introducing me to AF. It was my first affair, and of course my first time with AF and an electric massager too, but I ended up finding AF pleasurable. If I say at this club that I’m open to AF, will men assume I have experience working in the adult entertainment industry and be put off? If I’m lucky enough to receive an offer from someone who wants AF, do you think I should use an enema before every date and make sure I’m completely clean each time? I’d be embarrassed if anything got on the condom. (/// ^///)
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this too. > If I say that I’m open to AF through this club, will people assume I have experience in the adult-entertainment industry and be put off? As long as you explain, like in the message you wrote this time, how you came to enjoy AF, I don’t think they’ll assume you have experience working in the adult-entertainment industry. From the way you wrote “through this club,” I’m guessing you haven’t had your interview yet and are considering going. The staff won’t assume you have experience in that line of work based on something like that alone. In the first place, they’ll ask you directly, “Do you have any experience in the adult-entertainment industry?” and will place more importance on your answer. I think the real concern is that you don’t know how they might write about it in your club profile comments if you mention it during the interview. So, when a man asks about it, it’s fine to tell him—in fact, I’d encourage you to be open about it—but it may be safer to ask the staff not to include it in your comments. Then, in the comment section you can edit yourself after logging in, you could write something like: “About five or six years ago, I met someone who was quite a pervert and liked helping me discover AF while using a vibrator on my clitoris. It was my first time using an app, my first time with AF, and my first time using a vibrator, but I ended up finding AF pleasurable.” I think it might be better to avoid deliberately mentioning things like “cheating” or “using an app.” Another advantage here is that you can delete anything yourself if you decide it’s too risky. You can’t see what’s written in the staff comments, so you can’t ask them to remove something when you don’t even know whether it’s there. That’s why I think it’s best to put it in a section you can control yourself.
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紙ひこうき
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. Whether through a club or anywhere else, I’m looking for someone I truly click with and can stay connected to for life. So I don’t place much weight on that kind of intimacy and don’t find it particularly appealing. That said, I’m certainly curious about it. As for whether anyone would make me an offer, I’m not really sure. It’s possible, I suppose.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I thought writing, “Apparently, her ex-boyfriend had already introduced her to anal play,” might work well because it doesn’t sound like a sex-work service. And it’s true, after all. When it comes to AF at a sex-work establishment, unless it’s a specialty shop, the woman will probably steer you toward the front.
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
It’s me. Rather than mentioning AF in your profile, why not ask the staff to keep it on file? Men who are into AF will probably contact the club directly, so I think that would lead to more accurate matching. >> Staff, please correct me if I’m mistaken! *bows*
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ダイ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. At the club, I think women with no experience in nightlife work or papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) tend to receive more offers. I’m the same way—although women with body piercings or tattoos may be my type, I don’t make them an offer. That said, there are bound to be some men who are curious about trying AF. Those men probably wouldn’t be put off by it. By the way, even in the adult entertainment industry, there aren’t many women who are willing to do AF.
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