I’ve been offering gold-level women an allowance of 50, and we’ve continued seeing each other in an adult relationship (intimate).
This content is machine-translated.
I’m thinking it might be time to upgrade to platinum, but should I increase the allowance as well?
Does upgrading make it more likely that women will ask for 70 or even 100?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I think it comes down to whether you’re okay with the woman turning you down.
If you suggest 50, she may reject you. If you’re okay with that, then make the decision based on your own principles.
But if you absolutely don’t want to be turned down, I think you should ask her what amount she’d be comfortable with.
I can’t help wondering why you’re trying to decide everything on your own without considering her feelings. Do you think you’re somehow above her?
There’s you, and there’s the other person. Keep that in mind, be considerate, and become the kind of man who thinks about his partner, too.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Taro, a male member.
First of all, women don’t know what “class” they’re in, so I don’t think their requested allowance necessarily correlates with their class. Women who receive a lot of offers may develop their own sense of the going rate, but there are probably platinum women who get few offers and gold women who get many. And naturally, the amounts offered by the men they meet will vary from person to person.
For now, it’s best to state an amount you’re comfortable with. Even if there’s a gap between your terms, if she likes you, she’ll probably ask, “Would XX work instead?” You can decide then—but you’ll need to make up your mind on the spot.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
If there’s a woman I really want to get with, would it be wrong to offer whatever allowance she asks for—seven or even ten—and then decide afterward whether it was worth it?
Do you really have to set an allowance in the first place?
Besides, in a way, the allowance amount is a man’s price, isn’t it? That’s how I see it, and that’s what I’m fighting for.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
There are female members who, after receiving several offers, ask for about that much allowance even on the Gold plan.
I’ve set a maximum allowance for myself, and if a woman’s request exceeds it, unfortunately I part ways with her and make an offer to someone else.
If you want to increase the allowance, I think offering more would improve your chances of continuing the arrangement.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m “Paper Airplane,” a male member.
I think the amount women are judged at—somewhere around 30,000 to 100,000 yen—depends on the man. If she’s someone he really wants to be considerate toward, the amount can keep rising with no upper limit.
If you hear those words from a woman, just accept that that’s what she means and move on.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Ayase Nana♡
If you create your own policy and stick to it, wouldn’t it be fine to just keep it at 5 the whole time?
Wouldn’t changing things around make it confusing?
Mac and Kazu seem to be all 5s
(I wouldn’t know since I haven’t received an offer),
but they said so at the summit and roundtable discussions.
♡Mac? Wasn’t it 5?
Somehow this turned into school grades halfway through…
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
