I want to tell someone, with my usual cheerful attitude and my biggest smile, as if nothing ever happened, “Thank you for everything. We won’t be seeing each other anymore ♡” I want to say it face-to-face so I can see their final expression.
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But I’m still unsure.
Would you be happier receiving a letter?
We were together for five years. A lot happened, and I even had an abortion with this person.
I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer.
Breaking up is painful, but it’s best to say it face-to-face. It may be difficult, but I think that way, you can both get closure and move on.
Even if you can’t find the right words or say it exactly as you had planned, tell them directly.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
A lot has happened over these five years, hasn’t it?
Saying goodbye face-to-face takes courage, but please do your best.
I hope you can part on good terms.
I’m rooting for you.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
> I want to tell him directly because I’d like to see his final expression when I say it face-to-face.
If that’s how you feel, I think you should tell him directly. I don’t think it’s necessarily more meaningful just because it’s in a letter, and it’s only natural that you’d want to know how he feels.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
After being together for five years, you must have shared a lot. If it were me, I’d want her to tell me face-to-face.
Giving him a letter when you leave could be another option.
“All’s well that ends well.”
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I’m Taro, a male member.
If you feel that strongly, why not tell them face-to-face?
You’ve already made up your mind. After everything you’ve been through, I like the idea of ending things without turning it into resentment or trying to hurt the other person. It may sound strange to call it “manly,” but that’s how it feels to me. And if you say it in person, you’ll get to see their expression—that’s one of life’s great experiences, isn’t it? I wonder what their reaction will be. It may not stay with you for the rest of your life, but I think it’ll be something you remember for quite a while.
So tell them directly. Writing a letter would be such a waste. It’s a pain to write one, too. And then come back here and tell us how it went（笑）
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