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Sep 9, 2021 01:00
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I’m likely to have an adult relationship (intimate) for the first time with an overweight man who has an unattractive appearance (the type people call a “gross, obese guy”), and I have a few questions for those with more experience.
・If you’re with someone overweight, is the cowgirl position difficult because their stomach gets in the way?
What positions are more comfortable?
・I can’t imagine us being intimate at all, so I’m worried I won’t be able to get properly aroused when the time comes.
If you have any advice on how to prepare mentally, I’d appreciate it.
I’ve been able to have sex with all the papas I’ve met so far, but for some reason I’m nervous because this is my first time with this type of person.
His personality and financial situation are good, so even though he doesn’t have a clean-cut appearance, I’d like to give it my best shot.
5 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I don’t think you need to overthink it. Your partner probably knows which position is most comfortable for you, so I think it’s fine to just go with that.
Wait—was your question actually that you like being on top, but can’t do that with this particular partner?
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m guessing she’s a Type D woman.
I’m not overweight, so I can’t say for sure, but I think the man will choose a position that makes it easier for him to move.
If you’re not confident you’ll get wet, one option is to have some lubricant ready beforehand.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I prefer the woman-on-top position.
In an open-weight matchup, just having a heavier partner on top of you will wear you down. I think you have to either keep things standing (like standing from behind) or, if it goes to the ground, make sure you’re on top.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I feel sorry for that man, so please turn down the adult relationship (intimate). You don’t have to force yourself—you’ll end up emotionally drained.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
You really shouldn’t push yourself into papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).