I’m uncomfortable being asked to go for a second round when we don’t even know if we’re compatible.

Maezawa from the president’s office here. When discussing the allowance, I think many people don’t go into the details. But if the allowance has already been agreed on and, once you’re in the hotel room, she suddenly says something like, “I can’t do oral,” the man is probably going to feel disappointed. So men who have had that experience will ask in advance about certain things they’re concerned about, so the same thing doesn’t happen again. In this case, I think the man may have been disappointed in the past when someone told him she couldn’t do a second round. That’s why he probably wanted to know whether, if he felt like going another round, he might be turned down—even if they ultimately didn’t do a second round. So when someone brings up a topic like that, I think it would be good to give the same kind of answer as this time: “If we’re compatible, I’ll be the one to suggest going another round. Even if you’re an extremely quick finisher—like you finish as soon as you get in—I’d still say, ‘I want to go again♡’ and invite you. But if the foreplay is painful, or if the size, thickness, or firmness doesn’t suit me and it doesn’t feel good, or if you’re very slow to finish, then a second round is absolutely out of the question!” If he understands that much, he’ll probably be able to tell whether it was because he was slow to finish or because the two of you simply weren’t compatible. In most cases, just knowing that there’s a possibility should be enough for a man to accept it. If he can’t accept that, it simply means he sees you only as a partner for intimacy. So even if you decide to call it a night at that point, I think the person who asked the question can still consider it a good outcome.

I’m Kazu, a male member. As Make-Otoko wrote in the previous answer, I think anything that may affect the allowance should be discussed when you’re negotiating the allowance. If a man asks, “Would it be okay to do it one more time?” after finishing once, not many women would feel comfortable asking, “How much extra allowance will you give me?” It’s perfectly understandable not to know whether you’ll be able to go along with a second time, so you could simply say, “If I still have enough energy for a second time, then okay.”

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. As for a second round, I think it’s best to just let things flow if you’re compatible. That’s exactly what’s written here. From a woman’s perspective, I think what matters more is whether he can make her feel satisfied at just the right moment the first time around. Sometimes a woman will say, “You made me feel so good so many times, so I’ll do something for you in return.” But most of the time, she ends up falling asleep in the afterglow, and about two hours have passed before we realize it.

I’m Nana Ayase♡ Do you mean he’s asking that even though you haven’t met yet? If so, he probably sees you as just another hookup, and there’s a good chance there won’t be a second date. What if, after you’ve finished once, he immediately asks, “That felt really good. If you’re okay with it, would you like to do it one more time?” If you lift her mood first, she’ll probably be more receptive, and she’ll also feel reassured that you really enjoyed it.