I’m a female member worried about what will become of a friend who met her first love here. Is it likely to end well or badly?

Seeing strange questions like, “I’m trying to live solely off my allowance…” and “I contracted an STI—how should I tell him?” has made me really anxious, so I wanted to ask for advice. My friend had various circumstances and felt she had no choice but to join this site. I was the one who recommended it to her. She fell for a man she met here and is probably seeing him almost every day without receiving a pay-per-meeting allowance. (It seems he may have manipulated her into falling for him.) I’m worried that she may have caught an STI from him or that he may have treated her badly. I’ve told her many times not to get serious, and tried to convince her that he only pretends to be sincere and is actually a jerk. But she adores him… I know him too, and he’s a womanizer who spends all his time doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’ve suggested that she find someone else, since the amount of time and attention she gives him would be worth a considerable sum if she were doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with other people. It would be better for her physically and financially. The things she talks about fondly as fun experiences with him are so trivial that I feel sorry for her, and I feel deeply responsible for having recommended this site to her. They don’t really go on dates or exchange gifts—she simply keeps seeing him—so I can’t help wondering whether he truly values her. But he’s her first boyfriend, so she has nothing to compare this relationship with. I don’t think she realizes that she could have a much better romance. Her self-esteem is very low, which makes it difficult to get her to understand this. She’s neither unattractive nor unintelligent, so I’ve also suggested that she try looking for a partner among people of high social standing… How can I help her become happy without hurting her any further? I’d really appreciate your advice. m(_ _)mm(_ _)m