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Sep 7, 2021 12:11
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https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/8337
What is wrong with this man?
After taking up the best three years of this woman’s life, he expects her to become a single mother and support herself?
Does he really think she sees him as nothing but money? Isn’t that obvious? Even if he let this woman live more luxuriously than his wife and provided her with a carefree life without financial worries, he’d still be leaving her with a lifelong wound: raising a child without a father.
When he says he’ll provide an apartment, does he mean some ¥100,000-a-month studio in the suburbs?
Is she supposed to live frugally with the child?
If you don’t have what it takes to support a family, don’t say you want to have a child.
Kazu,
As expected, that was an excellent answer. I completely agree.
They were together for three years, yet he’s too shallow to understand her feelings.
Is even discussing what to do with her too much trouble for him? If so, then to that woman—though I doubt she’s reading this (lol)—please dump that small-minded man, reject his genes outright, and move on to the next one!!
Paper Airplane,
Absolutely out of the question (lol).
4 answers
Other
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
I really don’t understand the logic of saying, “I took away her youth for three years,” when all he did was engage in papa-katsu for three years while paying a monthly allowance. That’s an incredibly strange argument.
The person who asked the question in the linked post was simply so invested in the papa-katsu woman that he offered terms after thinking, “If she didn’t have to work or raise the child, maybe I’d be willing to have a child with her.”
There’s just no love between the papa (a male supporter) and the papa-katsu woman.
It looks to me like the questioner is simply taking the mistress’s side too strongly and spreading an opinion without any objectivity.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase♡
Is there really any love between these two?
The woman may have an ulterior motive—heehee♡
The man clearly has no idea what lies ahead.
That’s proof he’s never raised children before. I feel sorry for his wife.
Even after being told all this, he probably still doesn’t understand why he’s being criticized. What a sad person.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well.
Um… which part of the question am I supposed to answer?
Is the question basically, “I haven’t seen such a crazy guy to avoid in ages. What do you all think?” (That’s the gist, anyway.)
Is that it? (lol)
It’s absolutely terrifying.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
You’re absolutely right. Neither of them—the man or the woman asking the question—has good judgment.
Especially this part:
> After dating for three years, he’s still too shallow to understand how she feels.
Exactly. It’s honestly exasperating.