Tips Sep 2, 2021 23:55

I have a papa who messages me every day, but I’d like to reduce how often we communicate. We only meet around two or three times a month, so I don’t really feel like messaging him that much. How should I tell him without upsetting him?

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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. Could you be referring to me? I always message every day too, haha. If you’d rather not, just let me know that you don’t want any further contact. There’s no need to continue if you’re not comfortable.
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あや
あや ?
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I’m Aya, a female member. I think it’s perfectly fine to leave him on read or just reply with a sticker. It sounds like you’re not particularly fond of your papa, so don’t force yourself. That said, if you keep replying carelessly, there’s a good chance he’ll eventually realize, “She’s treating me pretty casually,” and cut ties with you. Whether you want to make the effort or not is up to you.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Unless a reply is necessary, I leave messages on read without responding.
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茉莉花
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Take longer to reply. Apparently, some people will even take it upon themselves to end things, like that impatient person earlier. If they get irritated because they can’t wait for a reply, the relationship will just become exhausting. Marika
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