I’m the person who previously asked about oil massages.

I’m Ayase Nana ♡ I went to a driving-range lesson ☆ As Paper Airplane mentioned, she might be put off by it, so try using it on the second or third date onward. The one I use for massaging my child’s feet (since she’s an athlete) is Prosbi Water-Soluble Massage Oil 01—the green bottle. I’ve never used it for anything intimate, but it’s safe enough for a child with atopic skin, so I think it should be fine if a little gets inside. Don’t wash inside with body wash or anything like that. You could get candida (it’s not an STI) because over-washing can kill the bacteria that keep things clean inside. I just hold the showerhead against the area and give it a rough rinse. ☆ If you want the important areas to be nice and slippery, lotion would probably be best. Even if you make her squirt, I think penetration should be fairly easy.

I’m Dai, a male member. When it comes to intimate matters, communication with your partner is everything. I sometimes give oil massages too, but I’ve met women who didn’t want the oil used internally. For women like that, I think it’s probably not about whether the oil suits their body—they simply don’t want anything put inside in the first place. If you ignore that and assume it’s okay just because it’s part of an adult relationship, you’ll likely put her off and there won’t be a next time.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. > But with that kind of pure, innocent massage oil, is it possible to work around the intimate area—or even go inside? It depends on the relationship between the two of you. If there’s a sense of security and trust, then after taking a shower, things can naturally progress as far as the intimate area. My only concern is whether she’ll think, “He even prepared massage oil?” So, at this point, do women already think, “You’re really good at massage!”? That’s more important. It’s also very important that she’s enjoying the sex as much as possible. Whether she’ll completely let herself go depends on that… As for whether she’ll accept a massage, you can casually massage her shoulders, neck, or head for 4–5 seconds while sitting beside her. You’ll quickly be able to tell whether she’s enjoying it. Without that level of skill, things may not progress smoothly. If massaging her shoulders or neck right away feels like too much, try massaging her hands or arms in the same way. Even a momentary massage will usually divide women into two types: those who enjoy it and those who feel ticklish. If she’s comfortable with it, she’ll be the former. Also, during your usual intimate encounters, it may be a good idea to set things up so that she seems to want you to massage her.