I have a papa (a male supporter) who agreed to meet three times a month (once a week) for an allowance of 150,000 yen, starting a monthly arrangement next month, but we haven’t had an adult relationship (intimate) yet. However, I dislike his rude, overbearing attitude and have started feeling that I don’t even want to see him once a week.
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So I’m thinking of asking him, “I’m okay with reducing the allowance, so could we limit it to twice a month?” Would he take that as me disliking him?
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m surprised she’s asking for a monthly arrangement even though we’ve never had an adult relationship (intimate) even once.
If she’s already talking about reducing the frequency from three times a month to twice before we’ve even started, I get the feeling this relationship probably won’t last long.
Rather than thinking she’s lost interest, I’d be suspicious that she’s received another offer.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’m with Kamihikōki!
I’m sure everyone does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the money, but basically, it shouldn’t be just about money. It won’t be enjoyable unless you build a relationship where both the man and woman genuinely look forward to seeing each other.
If you ever feel it’s becoming painful, I think it’s better to turn it down.
I hope you both can make it enjoyable papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—a mutually beneficial relationship...
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Well, she probably doesn’t like you. She might even start treating you a little more carelessly. But isn’t that okay? You’re probably not someone she can come to terms with anyway.
Just keep things going for as long as you can within your comfort zone. If it ends, so be it. Don’t push yourself too hard.
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I’m Hikoki, a male member.
You should tell him sooner rather than later.
Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is about receiving an allowance from a papa (a male supporter) you enjoy spending time with—even without the allowance.
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