The papa I see regularly often talks about his past relationships, but all of the ex-girlfriends he mentions were around twenty.
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The papa is in his 40s, but he proudly told me that until fairly recently, he had been seriously dating a student—not doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). It really turned me off.
I feel that men who exclusively date much younger women with a significant age gap, outside of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), either have the emotional maturity of a child or are just pathetic men who want to feel superior. Do men actually consider that something to brag about?
Column writer Saito here♪
I may not be a lolicon, but in today’s rapidly changing world, I often feel that younger women are generally more capable.
Younger people also seem to run businesses with a greater sense of speed, and they don’t have strange pride issues. (Though that may just be my bias.)
More and more women involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are becoming self-employed. I learn a lot from them, and it’s much better than drinking with some weird older guy.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
What a ridiculous guy, lol.
If it were me, I’d show him the graph about Leonardo DiCaprio’s alleged preference for younger women (search “DiCaprio lolicon graph” and you’ll find articles compiling it) and laugh, saying, “It’s hilarious, right? Even a Hollywood star can get mocked like this, lol.”
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I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
I’m in my late 30s, but the women I tend to have long-term relationships with are usually in their early 20s. Occasionally, I date women around 30, too.
It seems to me that you’re simply forcing yourself to view your dating history in a negative light.
If you’re popular, that just means you’re in a position to choose. As a result, you end up dating people you genuinely find wonderful—that’s all.
And statistically, big data has proven that no matter how much men talk in idealistic terms, even at 60, they still find women aged 20–22 the most attractive.
It’s simplistic to assume that dating a younger woman means you’re emotionally immature.
Dating someone in her 20s or 30s comes with different ways of building a relationship, different ways of interacting, and different advantages and disadvantages.
If you’re boasting about that or taking it negatively, I can’t help but think your perspective is simplistic—and that you’re jealous of youth.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Just listen to him as though he’s telling you something he’s proud of.
Think of it as being paid an allowance for listening.
However, he may also want you to become his girlfriend, so if he ever suggests something like, “Let’s meet without an allowance,” cut things off immediately.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it’s anything to brag about, but for men who place value on a woman being young, it may be.
To me, a mature, broad-minded person is someone who can still enjoy a conversation even with someone whose values differ from their own. I hope you can learn to talk with your papa without getting so worked up over things like that.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
The general assumption is that young women don’t fall for older men with a significant age gap.
So perhaps he’s bragging that he’s attractive enough to make you fall for him anyway.
What someone chooses to brag about—or whether they brag at all—varies from person to person.
Some men apparently boast about other things too, so knowing how to play such men and keep them wrapped around your finger may also be a useful skill for women.
Of course, since he sounds like a hassle, it would probably be easier not to get involved with him and look for someone else. That may be the real question here.
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