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Aug 18, 2021 10:22
6 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
If you’d like to keep seeing her in the future, I think it’s best to tell her that directly.
Something like:
“Various things have caused my motivation to drop, but I’d still like to see you again someday.”
That said, it’s quite common for the woman to have already moved on from papa-katsu by the time you feel motivated again.
If your motivation has waned, you could suggest meeting for dinner only (no intimacy). But if you no longer even feel motivated enough to meet for a meal, you may have to accept that it might be time for the relationship to end.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If you’d like to continue seeing him, tell him exactly that.
It might also help to explain why your motivation has dropped and how long you expect it to last.
If a woman reaches out saying she wants to meet and the man ignores her, I think that relationship is probably over.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I think you should keep your current line of communication and simply tell them how you feel.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think simply saying, “I’m busy with work,” is perfectly fine. You don’t need to worry about being that considerate.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
To the people I’d like to see again: if you’ve lost motivation but still want to meet again, please message me and ask me not to block you, and to wait for you.
If I don’t hear back, I’ll assume you’ve moved on to someone else. So if you still intend to meet, please let me know and ask me to wait.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Everyone takes things differently, so I don’t think there’s one right answer.
If it were me, I’d reply in a way that made it clear that I’m just not feeling up to it right now for personal reasons—not because I don’t like her—and that I’d still like to see her again.