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Aug 12, 2021 07:47
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A former male member once showed me the list of women on the members’ page, and the Gold women were honestly mostly just average-looking women you’d see walking around town. I found myself thinking, “Would someone really pay ¥30,000 for this?” They’re at the level you could meet for free on a dating app, right? I got the impression that the cute and beautiful women started at Platinum. There wasn’t much difference between Platinum and Black, but there was a huge difference between Gold and Platinum. Since you can meet a cute girl by paying just ¥20,000 more, I wondered whether Platinum and Black men would really bother making offers to Gold women.
My papas said they don’t offer to Gold women—or only rarely—because the Gold women are mostly nothing special-looking, with rather unattractive features.
Are Gold women generally only approached by Gold men?
7 answers
Other
It’s Nana Ayase ♡
You must be Platinum or Black, right?
I don’t think rank is based on looks alone. If your personality and behavior are bad, you should be moved down.
Staff~ This girl has a nasty personality and a foul mouth, so please downgrade her to Standard~
Other
She’s cute enough to belong in the Black or Platinum class, but if you make an offer and find out she’s this stupid and unpleasant, you’d probably regret it.
Are you going to keep telling yourself, “She’s cute, so it’s okay if she’s stupid and has a bad personality”?
Or will you become an amazing woman who’s not only cute, but also smart and kind?
Well, I suppose you can’t really change someone’s intelligence or personality, so it is what it is.
If you’re a papa who’s happy with things working that way, then by all means, carry on.
Marika
Other
I’m so glad my own daughter isn’t this mean-spirited~
Answer:
Everyone’s different.
Akari
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
At least in my case, even when I was a Black member, I made offers to Gold women.
I also add Standard women to my favorites, but I find myself wondering if there’s something else going on besides their looks, so I haven’t actually made an offer.
I feel that women ranked as Standard must have something that lowers their rank aside from their appearance—being on the curvier side, their relationship type, working in the adult industry, self-harm scars, tattoos, and so on.
By the way, describing someone’s face as “distorted” is a pretty malicious thing to say. Any papa (male supporter) who uses language like that is no good either.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer as well.
I think some men in the Black tier only make offers to Black members. Others will make offers up to Platinum, while some go as low as Gold.
In that sense, I get the impression that many Black-tier men will at least consider Gold members. (A lot of Black-tier men don’t consider Standard members.)
I think it really depends on the individual.
That said, there are also men in the Black tier who mainly make offers to Standard and Gold members, and we often receive feedback that their allowance is low or that they negotiated it down.
I’m sure everyone has their own strategy, so I don’t think it’s fair to make a blanket statement.
Many men do decide whether to make an offer based on looks, but whether the relationship continues long-term seems to depend on factors other than appearance.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I make offers regardless of class.
It’s a matter of personal preference, so people are free to do as they like, but I can’t help feeling that anyone who can only choose a partner based on their so-called facial attractiveness is rather narrow-minded.
It seems both you and the man you’re seeing have similar preferences, so I’d say you’re a good match. That’s great.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha!
That’s a good question.
As you said, there are a lot of beautiful women in the Black and Platinum tiers.
Everyone has different tastes, so someone who may seem just average to a third party might look really attractive to someone else.
Also, when making an offer, looks aren’t the only factor, so I think it’s perfectly normal to make offers to women in the Gold or Standard tiers without focusing too much on the introduction fee.
It’s hard to tell these days since everyone wears masks, but even when you look at couples walking around town, it’s pretty common to see an unattractive guy with a beautiful woman, haha.