For male members: What do you do when a woman’s requested terms are lower than you expected?

I’m Dai, a male member. I think you should give her the amount she’s asking for. If a man offers an excessively generous allowance, the woman may feel that she has to do something extra in return—such as making a sex video, having unprotected sex, or doing a uniform role-play scene. For now, I think your idea is probably the better approach.

I’m Aya, a female member. Honestly, I think either approach is fine. Even if you give her a generous allowance, she may still leave you, while an arrangement can continue even if the amount is small. But to put it bluntly, I do think being more generous increases the chances of things continuing. From a woman’s perspective, if she sees it as compensation for putting up with things, more is always better.

I’ll answer as Maezawa from the CEO’s office. If the woman asked for ¥50,000, I think ¥50,000 is perfectly fine. Your original figure was only meant to be the maximum, so there’s no need to force yourself to pay the full amount. If you overextend yourself, things will eventually fall apart. That said, if it wasn’t simply your maximum and you genuinely liked the woman you met so much that you had decided to give her ¥100,000, then I think you should give her the ¥100,000 you had settled on, even if she only asked for ¥50,000. In that case, since you had already decided on the amount, you wouldn’t really be overextending yourself. You might be trying to make an impression, but as long as you’re not forcing yourself, I don’t think things will fall apart. Also, giving her twice the amount she asked for may make you a higher priority than the other men she’s seeing. And in the long run, it might help you build a good relationship. > I’m still wondering what I should have done at the time (I gave her the amount she asked for). There’s no point dwelling on what’s already happened. If you plan to give her more at future events, I think that’s perfectly fine. What matters is paying close attention to her and considering whether she seems dissatisfied—and, if she does, what might be bothering her.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I have a set amount in mind, so whether a woman’s expectations are high or low, I generally offer the amount I’ve decided on. I do this because I don’t want to give different allowances to different partners. That said, this is simply what works for me. It sounds like you have your own way of thinking about it, so I think you should do whatever feels right for you. There’s no single “correct” allowance amount. As long as both parties are satisfied, that’s all that matters.