Tips Aug 10, 2021 13:43

I walked around looking for a love hotel with rooms in the 3,000-yen range for a short stay. This happened after our first meal together.

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He kept going into different hotels, checking the prices, and leaving. Even when he said he would look into it, he would quickly walk off to find the next one. I was exhausted from all the walking and felt absolutely miserable, so I was completely like a dead fish. If something like this happens again, would it be okay for me to leave while we’re still looking? Of course, I would say something to the man first. I believe dates arranged through Universe are only supposed to include the meal, but should I ask them for permission first, just in case?
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I’m Aya, a female member. People like that really do exist, huh… A love hotel that charges only around ¥3,000 for a short stay—are you talking about those places where you feed cash into a tube and it gets sucked away? I thought they were an urban legend, but apparently that kind of love hotel used to be pretty common. It’s unusual to come across one these days. It sounds like your financial expectations just didn’t match, so don’t let it get you down—move on to the next one. Good work.
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This is Nana Ayase♡ I just rode in the company president’s Porsche while he sped, and I let out a scream. Sorry for yelling so loudly, sir (sweat) What a stingy member… Tell him, “My feet hurt, so I’m going home.” He’ll probably only give you an allowance of 15,000 yen anyway. Report to the staff right away on LINE that he was cheap and made you walk around after choosing an inexpensive hotel.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. Haha(笑) That was a good learning experience(笑) Everything is a learning experience. Now you probably have a better idea of what this type of man is like. Let’s use what you learned this time to make your next date a better one...
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I’m Dai, a male member. A love hotel with short stays in the 3,000-yen range? I didn’t realize there were men who use dating clubs like that… Let’s go home and leave some feedback.
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Maezawa from the president’s office here. > If something like this happens again, would it be okay for me to leave while he’s still looking? Of course, I’d let the man know first. Since dinner was already over, it’s a matter of free choice, so you don’t need to contact Universe. You’re free to leave as long as you tell the man. I can understand if all the hotels were full and there were no rooms available, but repeatedly going in and out of hotels over the price is pretty exhausting. To begin with, I don’t think things are likely to work out with a man who’s trying to save a few thousand yen in that situation, so leaving is certainly an option. However, the man may later submit feedback that puts you at a disadvantage, so I think it would be better to send feedback along these lines: “He kept looking for a cheap hotel, entering various hotels only to check the prices and then leaving. After walking around and getting tired, I told him I was going home and we parted ways. I’m sorry if any strange feedback is submitted.” Some men may say things like, “She went home on her own while we were on the way to the hotel. How could she be so rude?”
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