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This may sound like a somewhat envious question, but...

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There’s a girl at my university who moved to Tokyo, lives alone, doesn’t have a part-time job, and owns a car. Does that mean her family is extremely wealthy, or that she’s making a substantial amount through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? Apparently, she isn’t taking out student loans either. I come from an extremely poor family living in public housing, and all the money I make through papa-katsu goes toward living expenses or savings for repaying my student loans in the future. It barely makes a dent, so I’m jealous...
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ If you’re the type to envy others, it shows on your face. You can tell at a glance. You probably won’t ever find true happiness. Before worrying about other people, think about what you can do to move yourself even a little higher. Improve your work skills, get a qualification, work on your abs—anything is fine. Even if it’s little by little, keep raising your own level. You don’t have time to criticize others. Aim to level yourself up, even just a bit.
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Maezawa from the president’s office here—I’ll answer as well. > All the money I earn through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) goes toward living expenses or savings for repaying my student loans in the future, so it barely makes a difference. Let’s start by improving this part. On apps, ¥15,000 might be considered normal, but this is a dating club. There are plenty of men here who properly pay an allowance, so I think you should try to find a good one. If you work on yourself and become more attractive to men, I think you’ll have more financial breathing room as well.
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Even though you were dirt poor, you were able to attend college—and now that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) exists, you’re lucky to have found a way to make money. Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member. If you, her classmate, don’t know where this unfamiliar woman’s income comes from, there’s no way strangers like us could know. Besides, even knowing how someone else earns money wouldn’t help solve your own problem. The world is unfair. In some countries, many children don’t live to the age of the person asking this question because of hunger or poor sanitation. Even in Japan, some people have to give up going to university for financial reasons. First, try to become an adult who can distinguish between your own circumstances and those of others.
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