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Aug 10, 2021 01:33
6 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Why are you asking here instead of simply asking the woman what she wants?
It seems like you’re trying to impose your own opinion without thinking much about her feelings.
This is about the two of you, so I think the best outcome is for her to be satisfied.
You should focus more on what would make her happy.
If you can’t ask her directly, just give her a generous allowance. Don’t try to get away with paying as little as possible—being more generous will help things go smoothly in the future.
If you don’t like that, then ask her directly. That’s all there is to it.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
There are no fixed standards or going rates, so instead of asking here, ask the person directly.
In my case, it depends on the person.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I think it’s fine as long as you set your own standards, discuss them with the woman in advance, and come to an agreement.
When the relationship is still new, I feel that staying overnight tends to come with a fairly substantial allowance.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
There’s no single right answer.
You should ask the woman whenever possible. It can be difficult to bring up, but I think it’s important to build a relationship where you can talk about those kinds of topics. If it’s your first time, you probably have a lot of questions—not just about the allowance. Women likely feel the same way, so I think things go more smoothly, with fewer misunderstandings, if you talk enough beforehand to share those feelings.
More broadly, as you become closer, there will inevitably be times when things don’t go the way either of you expected. At that point, a major turning point is whether you pull away thinking, “This person wasn’t what I expected,” or tell them, “Why aren’t things going the way I thought they would?”
In that sense, I think it’s a pretty important moment.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
The other day, I went to Okinawa’s Halekulani with my monthly-arrangement papa for four days and three nights, but I honestly didn’t even think about receiving an allowance. We’ve been seeing each other for a long time, so it doesn’t bother me at all. That said, he did buy me a computer yesterday, so I suppose you could consider that the allowance for the trip.
Of course, some women prefer cash, and it depends on your relationship with her, so I think the quickest way is simply to ask her directly.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I count it as one day if we have sex only before bed, and as two days if we have sex again the next day. In short, the number of days we have sex is the 기준.