There’s a man who keeps touching my nipples constantly, both during and after sex.
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I think my nipples are fairly tough, but even so, having them touched for an hour straight leaves them raw, painful, and tingling.
I told him, “Please don’t touch them so much—it hurts,” but he apparently doesn’t even realize he’s doing it and touches them unconsciously, so simply telling him hasn’t helped.
Is there any good way to stop him from touching my nipples?
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
I found myself wondering what “tough nipples” would even be like, but if they still end up hurting, that sounds pretty serious.
I think you should explain that the skin is getting rubbed raw and ask them not to touch you, then agree on how long touching is okay.
Men tend to dislike setting time limits, but if it’s getting bad enough to cause the skin to peel, you need to be that firm. Be sure to clearly emphasize that it’s genuinely painful and difficult for you.
For example, if you agree on ten minutes, then once about ten minutes have passed, just tell them it’s over and don’t let them touch you anymore.
Using a timer would kill the mood, so it’s probably better to casually keep track of roughly ten minutes yourself.
And when their hand comes toward you, do your best to move away or brush it aside.
If that still doesn’t work, maybe try wearing nipple covers?
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I like nipples too, but if a woman tells me she doesn’t like it, I make sure not to push it.
I do think that kind of thing is part of compatibility, though.
Either way, make sure you communicate it clearly beforehand or afterward—not in the middle of intimacy.
Men are worked up during intimacy, so he might think, “She says no, but she really likes it.” And if she comes on too strongly, he may lose interest and cut ties with you.
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Some men really don’t understand how sensitive nipples can be.
For some reason, they seem to think rubbing them vigorously will feel good, or that the harder they do it, the better. I get frustrated with men who keep pinching them, and I tell them to stop.
If they still won’t stop, I think it’s perfectly fine to pause things and make it clear.
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Maybe he mistakenly thinks I enjoy having my nipples touched?
How about making it a penalty game? If he tries to touch me even after H is over, charge an extra fee. I think he’d definitely stop touching them. What do you think?
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I’m Taro, a male member.
It’s kind of like training an animal—like correcting a pet’s habit of biting.
Start by saying, “That hurts,” and tell him that touching your nipples is forbidden for the day. If he listens, he’s a good boy. If he doesn’t, cover them with nipple pasties so he can’t touch them. After a while, if he stops touching them even through the pasties, try without them. If he can leave them alone, he’s a good boy; if not, he’s a bad boy, so scold him and use the pasties again next time.
The important thing is to reward him when he’s a good boy. Do something he’ll enjoy. If you make sure there’s a clear difference between rewards and reprimands and stick with it patiently, you can train him.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If he keeps going even though he’s hurting you, that’s simply inconsiderate.
How about gently taking his hand and moving it away? If that still doesn’t work, you’re the only one who can protect your own body, so you’ll need to be more firm—or end things with him.
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