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Aug 8, 2021 00:42
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I saw a woman whose profile listed her occupation as “full-time homemaker.”
Are there married women among the members? If so, how can you tell?
You can usually tell when someone is a single mother because it’s generally stated in their profile, but…
3 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
I understand where you’re coming from. If you date someone who’s married and their husband sues you for damages, you’ll almost certainly have to pay, and the amount can be substantial—often around ¥2–4 million.
Also, while it may seem commendable that a woman openly says she’s married, in practice, the claim for damages is usually made against the man involved rather than the wife. After all, suing the wife won’t increase the household’s finances. So I’m not really sure why she would go out of her way to disclose it and then try to pursue a relationship.
Even if she were married, if she told you she was single and you had no reason to doubt her, you’d at least have some grounds to fight back if her husband demanded damages—you could say she told you she was single and that you have proof. In that sense, I almost feel more reassured when someone says they’re single.
That said, if you want to avoid getting involved in any dispute at all—even if you might not ultimately have to pay damages—it’s probably best not to date married women.
In that case, I think it would be enough to add a line when making the offer: “Please decline if you are married.”
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Please write in your profile that married men aren’t okay.
Or you could message the staff on LINE and casually ask about it.
You’re not married, are you, questioner?
Please don’t persecute married people so much.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If you want to avoid married women, you can ask them to confirm that they’re unmarried in the section for “requests to the club or questions for the woman” when making an offer.
If the club has that information on file, they’ll contact you to confirm before proceeding with the offer.