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Aug 6, 2021 00:24
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Yokoyama from the club staff here as well.
From the second meeting onward, the relationship is considered a private matter, so generally speaking, the club can’t get involved. As others have mentioned, depending on the circumstances, we may contact the gentleman and offer a word of caution.
We’re happy to discuss anything with you, so please feel free to reach out at any time.
We may not have fully addressed your concerns, but we appreciate your understanding.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane.
When it comes to relationships between men and women, only the two people involved know what really happened—especially when it involves an adult relationship (intimate).
If something unpleasant happens, it’s generally assumed that both sides may have contributed to the cause or problem.
So if the club only receives one-sided feedback from the man, you could end up at a serious disadvantage.
I think it would be best to explain the situation as soon as possible.
That said, if both of you are unhappy with how things went, you may both end up leaving a bad impression.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Column Writer Flag Maker.
For every woman I’ve met, I submit at least two feedback reports to the club: one after the first meeting and another after subsequent meetings.
Since becoming a “black member,” I started asking the club about a woman’s details before making an offer. That makes me feel responsible for passing accurate information on to the men who come after me, so I submit two reports.
The downside is that, thanks to those reports, my coordinator knows all about my dating activities. They’ve become the only person who knows everything about me. I even vent to them from time to time.
In a case like this, if the content were particularly serious, I think the club would at least contact the male member to confirm what happened. Depending on how he responds, they might even note something like “troublemaker” in his member profile.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
It depends on what made you uncomfortable.
You should also give the club feedback about dates after the first one.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Club’s office here—I’ll answer this as well.
> In that case, does reporting it to the Club mean that nothing can be done?
Since I don’t know exactly what made you uncomfortable, it would be easier to answer if you could be a little more specific.
For example, if you didn’t receive the allowance that had been promised for the second meeting onward, the Club may get involved by asking, “You made a promise, so what happened?”
However, if you didn’t receive an allowance simply because you never discussed the allowance for future meetings, it may be difficult for us to intervene. (Although we would like to help if possible.)
First, try to set aside the fact that you felt uncomfortable and consider whether:
- He broke a promise
- He did something without your consent
If either applies, I think it would be best to report those specific facts to the Club.
Even if it’s a case where our involvement is difficult, we’ll keep an internal record that this man treats women badly.
If we receive more reports about him, we may warn women in advance, and if his behavior is particularly serious, we may even terminate his membership.
Please feel free to consult the Club first.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m the male member, だて◎ゆめ.
To help ensure other female members don’t have to go through the same unpleasant experience with this kind of male member again, I think it would be best to report it to the club.
Let’s make sure our relationships through the club are enjoyable and mutually beneficial for both sides!
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it depends on what exactly happened to make you uncomfortable.
If it was a criminal act, the club would likely issue a serious warning or terminate his membership. If it was simply ungentlemanly behavior, they may, depending on the circumstances, give him a talking-to on your behalf. Alternatively, they may record him in the club’s “book of offenders” as a man to avoid.
Rather than asking here without being able to share the specifics, I suggest sending the club feedback about the date.
That said, please don’t forget that the club is not your employer.