Tips Aug 3, 2021 05:21

I’d appreciate some advice on how to avoid things becoming repetitive.

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I feel that sex with a woman I’ve been seeing for a year and a half has become rather predictable. We just repeat the same positions: woman-on-top, from behind, and missionary. Once with clitoral stimulation, once with G-spot stimulation, about five minutes on top, ten minutes thrusting from behind, then five minutes with her thighs over my shoulders at a faster pace, finishing in a predictable grand finale every time. I’m reasonably satisfied, but I worry about how she really feels about it. She does moan, writhe, and occasionally have contractions, but that may simply be part of putting on a performance, so it’s hard to say. She doesn’t like toys, trying new positions, or approaches that differ from our usual routine. I’m afraid she’ll get bored with me. I want to treat her well and make sure she’s satisfied. How long does it usually take for women to get bored with the same routine? At what point do they start wishing their partner would change the way he approaches them? Or do some women prefer to keep their own pattern of climaxing the same and not change things much?
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I think women appreciate it when you genuinely want to treat them well. I understand that feeling of worrying, “What if he gets bored?”—I have the same concern myself. I try to keep things fresh by making small changes in areas other than intimacy.
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Um… this is a relationship where you receive an allowance, right? If that weren’t the case, even if she were your wife or girlfriend, she wouldn’t think about it one ten-thousandth as much as you do. If she had actually been bothered by it, she would have said something long before now—within the past year and a half. Women don’t even remember for three hours the little details or words from sex that a man might remember for the rest of his life. No, they don’t leave even a fragment in her memory. > I’m afraid she’ll get bored with me. You should think more about how to keep her from getting bored with you in other ways. Of course, that includes sex, but also everything else—make it so she happily and enthusiastically talks to you about it.
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I think you should just tell him exactly that. If you’ve been seeing each other for a year and a half, he’ll probably say something if he has a request. Marika
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