I’m a self-employed man in my 50s who registered with a dating club after getting tired of searching for a replacement for my exclusive partner, who graduated a few months ago.
My type is a beautiful, fair-skinned, tall, slender woman around 20 and just under 170 cm, so the pool is small. Still, the club had plenty of wonderful women who matched my preferences, and I was able to enjoy various kinds of companionship. However, with my limited financial means, having an exclusive partner is simply too difficult, so I recently started using apps as well.
To cut to the chase, things have been a complete bust. Defeated by the lack of success, I met a 33-year-old, 167-cm former gravure model with an H-cup figure who was available for an immediate adult relationship. Her rate was a little on the high side, but I trusted her words, “I’m sure you’ll be satisfied,” and met her. She turned out to be every bit as wonderful as I’d hoped. She arrived 15 minutes early and waited for me, and her thoughtfulness, manners, modesty, and shyness gave her a charm that younger women simply couldn’t match. Neither her face nor her body had been altered, and in private she showed an incredible, never-before-seen level of responsiveness that gave a man confidence.
I asked her, “Rather than using apps, wouldn’t you be better off going to a dating club, where someone who appreciates you could take good care of you?” She said that was what she herself wanted, and that she had previously registered with Universe, but hadn’t gotten a good impression of the person who interviewed her and received zero offers. In fact, she didn’t appear even when searching by age and body type. She apparently forgot the name she registered under because she never heard from them afterward. It sounds like things were similar with Aopla as well. I can’t afford it myself, but for a financially comfortable club member, she seems like the kind of woman you wouldn’t mind paying any amount for. I got the impression that if someone supported her financially, she would devote herself to him completely.
Putting aside my own situation, I somehow felt indignant that someone like this would have to fend for herself. As a Japanese person, I found it embarrassing in front of the foreign visitors who had come to Japan for the Olympics—even though it had nothing to do with me(^^)—so I decided to ask this question.
I don’t think her attitude during the interview was bad, and she’s such an attractive person, so isn’t there some way the interviewer could have brought out more of her appeal?
I feel she’s the kind of woman who would make you realize just how amazing the women at a black-market club must be if she were at one.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer as well.
If you mean you failed the interview, then the question is, “What were the staff doing?” But if you registered in the past and never received any offers, then rather than blaming the staff, I’d say you simply weren’t the kind of woman male members wanted to make an offer to.
In that case, the responsibility lies with you, doesn’t it?
As the representative of male members, please make offers to women who currently have none, one after another. If you make offers to three women every day, you could save 1,095 women in a year.
So please do your best to make those offers.
And learn to recognize what makes a good woman attractive.
Wait…that’s what this is about, right?
Or did I get it wrong?
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
“Exclusive woman”—that’s a great way to put it.
That’s pretty much how my relationships are too (lol).
Anyway, I understand you didn’t receive any offers through the dating club. Since competition is quite fierce, I think there are cases where you may not get an offer depending on your class and timing.
Recently, some clubs also seem to lower a woman’s class if she doesn’t receive any offers for a certain period. So rather than being overly attached to the initial class assignment, I believe they’re placing more importance on both the company’s business performance and the opportunities they provide for women who made the decision to register.
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Ayase Nana here♡
First of all, she’s simply too tall. She does look good, though. But when you’re walking together, the man would have to look up at her… Of course, I don’t think it’s just about height…
Everyone has different preferences, and there’s always someone more attractive out there. From the perspective of men in the Universe, perhaps she just wasn’t someone they wanted to pay to meet.
Oh, and whatever you do, I don’t think you should tell that woman things like this. It’s already been spread across the country, so she must be embarrassed.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer.
There are plenty of former gravure models, ex-idols, and former beauty pageant contestants out there. Even someone unattractive like me has had women as companions before.
I feel like you’re simply getting too emotionally invested.
“Cleansing herself”? Did you mean “selling her body”?
She’s choosing this from among many options, after all. This must be the job that suits her best, which is why she does it.
I think you’re just looking down on this woman’s free will based on your own assumptions.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
You wrote that the interviewer brings out the woman’s appeal, but if she came across similarly at both Universe and Blue Plaza, perhaps there isn’t as much demand for her as you think.
Personally, after reading this, I didn’t feel particularly inclined to make her an offer.
Everyone has different preferences.
I think the best thing would be for you to treat this woman well. Please support her generously.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It sounds like you met her because you were tired of having no luck, and fortunately, she turned out to be someone you clicked with.
Expecting the dating club staff to somehow fix that for you seems like asking too much.
I believe being an adult means taking responsibility for your own affairs.
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