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Aug 1, 2021 03:20
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I’d like to have certain male members on Universe (men who made me offers before I withdrew and with whom I’m still seeing each other) hidden from my profile. Would giving you their full names be enough for this?
Can you really hide them? I’m hesitant to register because I’m worried there could be some mix-up and they might remain visible without the settings being applied....
There are actually several men I’d like to have hidden.
Would women like that be considered “experienced” and possibly rejected during the interview as a result?
Thank you in advance for your answers.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
> Is it possible if I give you his full name?
If possible, it would be more reliable if you could give us the man’s club name.
If you no longer remember his club name, we can also search by his real name, but that makes the search more difficult, so I think it would be better if you could provide his phone number as well.
> I’m worried that, due to some mistake, my profile might be displayed without being set to hidden.
It’s not impossible, but in most cases, profiles are properly set to hidden.
> I’m scared, so I’m hesitant to register again....
Even if your profile is properly hidden, if a friend happens to be a Universe member, they might tell someone, “She’s registered again,” and that could be how it gets found out.
To reduce the chances of that happening, you could:
1. Hide the men you’ve dated in the past.
2. Use a different club name from before.
3. Have your face blurred.
If you do all three, I think the chances of being recognized will be fairly low.
With option 3, you’ll receive fewer offers. However, if you’ve received offers before, you may still get some even with only your face blurred, as long as you use photos that highlight your figure.
> Could women like that be considered “experienced” and end up failing the interview?
You mean someone re-registering, right?
If she received offers last time, she’ll almost certainly be registered again. The interview criteria are basically whether we think she’s likely to receive offers.
Whether she’s experienced or not isn’t relevant. As far as the staff are concerned, most people think it’s perfectly reasonable for someone to request that certain men be hidden.
If the request is unreasonable, we might think, “Um... that could be a problem,” but simply asking us to hide a particular person is absolutely fine.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Well, mistakes do happen. Nothing people do is ever foolproof...
In my own experience, there have been a few mistakes on the club’s end as well.
Recently, the setup fee is charged after a date is arranged, but the fee was clearly too low. I didn’t feel right saying nothing, so I pointed it out myself.
Another time, when I requested a secret woman, I was introduced to someone I’d already been offered and hadn’t continued seeing. (Maybe she had simply hidden me from her profile.)
That said, hiding a specific man is a service the club provides, not an obligation. If you’re not prepared to accept that risk, you shouldn’t re-register.
Other
I’m probably going to get told off for saying this again, but I’ve also asked for multiple people to be hidden, and since it’s Universe’s system, I can’t help worrying that some may have been displayed by mistake.
But I trust them.
I don’t think being “experienced” would ever be a reason to fail an interview. That said, I’m sure there are men who dislike women being “experienced.”
Marika