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I’m a female member with very thin hair. I’m only 23, but it’s so thin that anyone would do a double take. My bangs look like a sparse curtain. It started thinning when I was in high school and has gotten dramatically worse over the past year or two. Even after going to hospitals and salons, no one can determine the cause or tell me what treatment to get, so I cry every day.

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When I go on dates with male supporters, I try to cover it up by spraying black hair-concealing powder on my hair. But on my last date, there must have been a spot I missed, because the man kept looking almost exclusively at my head. Then, when I suggested an adult relationship for 30,000 yen, he coldly replied, “Oh, that’s fine if you can’t” (lol). I was in tears. ※I did receive the 5,000-yen transportation allowance. Recently, a lot of people have been telling me, “You’d be so much cuter if you had more hair.” I’m gradually losing confidence in myself, and it’s really painful. I feel desperate asking all of you with more experience for advice here, but do you know of anything I could try? Also, if you liked a woman and found out she had this issue—especially if you knew she was using black spray—would you be put off? By the way, a hair-growth salon told me it would cost 2 million yen a year, and they couldn’t guarantee it would work, so I’m unsure. I’ve also been buying medication online to take and apply. I went to a hospital as well, but they told me they couldn’t determine the cause.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well. I think a slightly more expensive wig would be a good choice. Cheap ones are no good, but if you get one in a reasonable price range, people won’t notice at a glance. Especially men who aren’t used to seeing wigs often don’t seem to notice. Of course, someone might find out. But even if they do, you could say something like: “I really like this hairstyle, but apparently it isn’t acceptable for my conservative line of work. Why is that?” Having an excuse like that ready might be a good idea.
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I’m Dai, a male member. I think it would be a good idea to wear a wig. Even when I see women walking around town, I can’t tell whether they’re wearing wigs. The more you worry about it, the worse it’ll be for you mentally.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ Please wear a wig. I developed a bald spot right in the middle of my bangs from alopecia areata, so I wore a wig too. I ended up looking like a fallen samurai(笑) It’s still a little thin, but it’s growing back. I have another spot hidden elsewhere too. It’s still a smooth, oddly lovable bald patch. You can find cheap wigs online, so go ahead and buy one right away. By the way, I wore one that cost 1,980 yen(笑) Just make sure you don’t get the color wrong.
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I once had a coworker in a similar situation. After she started wearing beautiful wigs, she looked completely transformed and became incredibly cute. Her personality also brightened up. It might be fun to have two or three styles, depending on the look you want to create. Marika
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I’m Taro, a male member. Why not just wear a wig?
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