I recently joined, but a papa asked me, “Did you come to the interview with this girl?” Even after I denied it, he still doesn’t believe me.
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Apparently, there’s another female member who just happened to register on exactly the same day, is a university student in the same year, is the same age, and has photos taken in the same location and from what seems to be the same angle. He’s mistakenly assumed that she and I are friends at the same university and came to the interview together. In reality, I don’t know her at all.
Do men really get suspicious about things like this?
If he was showing you profile photos and the like to have you confirm whether you knew the girl, he’s not just a nuisance—he’s violating the platform’s rules.
Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member.
That’s such a frustrating story just hearing about it…
Why not try saying, “I really don’t know. Why don’t you make them an offer too and ask them the same thing?”
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
> Do men really suspect things like that?
A man who won’t believe you even when you tell him it isn’t true sounds like a real hassle.
Not all men are like that, so I think it’s best to chalk this one up to him simply being a difficult guy.
Men like that are probably troublesome in other ways too, so you might want to keep him as an option and feel free to end things if you find someone better.
That said, if he offers a generous allowance, you may want to handle him cleverly and continue seeing him.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It might be because some women actually apply with their friends, which leads to misunderstandings.
I once made an offer to a woman who had applied with a friend.
At the time, I did find myself wondering whether I should offer to her friend too, just out of curiosity. (In the end, I didn’t, since she wasn’t really my type…)
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