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Why would a papa (a male supporter) lie only about the high school he attended? I had a chance to learn my papa’s real name, and when I searched for him, I found something like a career profile. His job and university were accurate, but he lied about his high school.

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I’m Kobayashi from Customer Success. Perhaps he wants to be a cool, wonderful papa (a male supporter) in front of you… He may even have some embarrassing history he’d rather keep hidden.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I also graduated from a high school that wasn’t particularly academically competitive, so I do think someone’s high school matters. The kind of life they led during those sensitive teenage years, the direction they put their efforts into, and what they were aiming for all come through, so it matters to me(笑) That said, I don’t think there’s any need to go as far as falsifying it. I believe the person they are now is shaped by their past. I think it’s best to look at what someone experienced during their high school years and what their high school was like.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well. I didn’t realize that could happen. Or rather, I’m surprised they looked into it that thoroughly... Was it perhaps a high school you’d rather not tell people about? Still, it’s pretty remarkable that you even listed your high school among the information you regret sharing. Was it a well-known school, by any chance?
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I’m Taro, a male member. That’s interesting. Is the high school someone attended really that important? Maybe it’s some kind of prestigious or special school. Early in an arrangement, I don’t really want to share too much personal information, so I might be vague or throw in a few harmless fakes. But couldn’t it simply be something she mentioned in conversation at the time? Actually, what kind of real harm is there if someone lies about the high school they attended in the first place?
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I’m Aya, a female member. I’ve met dozens of men through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I’ve never come across anyone who was that hung up on something. Interesting. It sounds like their high school is still a source of identity for them. Maybe they didn’t get into the school they wanted. If you want to learn more, why not ask about their high school days? You might gain some insight into the source of your papa’s insecurities.
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