What do you think of men who walk at their own pace without considering women wearing heels?
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There’s a male member who walks fairly fast, and it’s always exhausting for me. He keeps walking without noticing that I’m one or two steps behind him. When he thinks I’m walking beside him and tries to talk to me, he realizes I’m actually behind him and gives me a confused look. This has happened several times.
It’s especially common with men in their late 50s and 60s.
(And without exception, their teeth are gross too.)
I’m starting to feel sorry for them, thinking that’s probably why they can’t attract anyone, but honestly, my feet are killing me, so I want to do something about it.
How should I bring it up?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
After walking a little, stop and wait for him to notice and come back.
Then you could say something like, “My feet are starting to hurt because I’m wearing high heels.” He might start walking more slowly for you.
You could also search for “shoes you can run in.” You’ll find things like:
- Rockport, praised in magazines and reviews as shoes you can “really run in”
- Odette e Odile, beautiful yet comfortable enough to run in, with excellent functionality
- Ami Ami, “comfortable pumps at affordable prices”
- MAMIAN, which uses different types of soles in different areas to pursue “comfort that makes them easy enough to run in”
- Ginza Kanematsu, ranked No. 1 in GINGER magazine’s feature on “miracle pumps you can run in”
There are plenty of options, so it might be worth trying shoes like those.
Of course, ideally, the man would be considerate and adjust his pace for you.
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
Do you absolutely have to wear heels?
I’m going in ballet flats.
If that still isn’t okay, why not try saying, “Then let’s hold hands♡”?
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Why not think about the other person with a little kindness, too?
If all you can think about is adjusting yourself to them, you’re still just a child.
Akari
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Keep trying different heels until you find a pair with such a stable center of gravity that you could practically run in them.
If you can’t do that, wear ballet flats.
And if you’re always blaming other people, maybe that’s why you’re not popular—and can’t make relationships last.
Marika
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I’m a male member getting scolded in the parking lot: “I’m wearing heels, so park the car closer.”
Given her age, she may be struggling to walk because she’s not as spry as she used to be.
Normally, you’d adjust your walking pace to the woman’s shoes. Since he wasn’t doing that, I think she should have just told him directly:
“I’m wearing heels, so try not to make me walk too far,” or “Walk a little more slowly.”
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