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Jul 16, 2021 21:16
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My legs are slightly impaired because of the medication I’ve been taking for many years.
It takes me a while to walk down stairs.
Going down them in heels takes me a very long time.
But I’m considering joining a dating club or working in nightlife because I need money to move out, pay for a second opinion at a mental health clinic, and, to be honest, I want to live a better life than I do now.
I get approached, so I don’t think my appearance is an issue. I also pass the document screening for beauty pageants, so I should be fine.
I feel suffocated living with my family.
That’s why I want to become independent.
Would you not want to go on a date with a woman who takes a while to walk down stairs?
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
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Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
Hmm…
Actually, even when a woman appeared perfectly typical and seemed to have no issues during the interview, if she had a disability certificate, we would explain the situation and decline her registration.
That’s because the club could be held responsible if something happened during a date.
You don’t appear to have a disability certificate, so that shouldn’t be an issue for you. However, if it takes you an unusually long time to walk down stairs, there’s a possibility that you may not be able to register.
The club would be put in a difficult position if, for example, you fell down the stairs during a date.
So, when explaining that you’re slow at walking down stairs, I think it would be better to mention safety-related details as well, such as that you’ve never fallen before.
That said, even if you’ve never fallen, you should understand that registering may be difficult if you have a disability certificate.
If you come in for an interview first, the staff can make a judgment on those points. If you can also pass the document screening for things like beauty pageants, I imagine you would receive a reasonable number of offers.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Even if you’re attractive, you’ll still get offers from strange men. That’s why what really matters is the goodness that shines through from within.
In other words, the key is whether the staff member who interviews you thinks, “This woman has such a wonderful personality! I don’t want her to get hurt by being matched with a bad man. I should recommend her personally to some well-mannered male members.”
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I think it should be fine. It’s not a physical issue, but I once met a woman who couldn’t sit directly across from someone because of trauma from domestic violence. At the time, I went around discovering all kinds of restaurants with counter seating. One day, we ended up sitting at an L-shaped counter, and I still remember how happy she looked when she realized she could see my face without sitting directly across from me.
Whether you share the more personal details is up to you, but it might be a good idea to mention beforehand that you have some difficulty walking and aren’t comfortable with stairs.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you copy and paste this question exactly as it is into your profile, you’ll probably get some offers. It makes people want to help you.
I can’t say whether you’ll be able to maintain an arrangement with a good papa (a male supporter), though.