My papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is starting to feel repetitive. I have two papas (male supporters), and although I don’t want to see them, I meet them for the money.
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
I feel like not wanting to meet but meeting anyway is different from simply getting bored with the relationship.
If you don’t want to meet, I don’t think you should force yourself. But if you’re doing it for the money, then it seems like you’ll need to keep it going.
That said, I don’t think “not wanting to meet” necessarily means the relationship has become stale. Has the meaning of the word changed over time?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If you really, truly need the money, I think that after forcing yourself to keep going, you’d eventually reach a sort of runner’s-high state: “This is so hard, but I’m making this much! Amazing! It’s tough, but I’m doing something so intense!!”
If you’re not reaching that point, though, maybe it’s proof that you’re not actually desperate enough to earn the money. You’d probably be better off quitting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and getting a regular part-time job.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
It’s better to put your small frustrations into words and communicate them to the other person.
That’s how normal relationships work, right? People don’t usually keep meeting someone while simply putting up with things.
When you let those issues slide, it starts to feel more like a commercial sex service.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
You should end things with a papa you don’t want to see.
Even with a regular job, continuing something solely for the money is extremely difficult.
What you’re doing right now is basically papa-katsu penance.
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