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Can male members see how many offers a female member has received?

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I’m Tetsu, a male member. When I asked the staff, they couldn’t tell me the exact number, but they did let me know roughly how many offers there were—such as very few, several, fewer than five, more than ten, or many. The only exception is zero: they can tell you if there are no offers at all.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. More than five or six years ago, when men asked, we would tell them how many offers they had received. However, after taking women’s requests into account, we established an internal rule around five years ago that women should not be told the number of offers they had received. That said, as we continued operating, the rule gradually became less strict. For example: “It’s probably fine to tell them whether they’ve received a lot or only a few offers, right? (We’re not telling them the exact number.)” Or: “If someone has received zero offers, telling them might make it easier for them to get one, so that should be okay too.” So the rule has gradually evolved in subtle ways. Therefore, if you’re asking what to say when a woman is asked about her offers, you could say something like: “I only get a few offers.” That way, you wouldn’t have to lie. Or perhaps: “I’ve received some offers, but our schedules haven’t worked out, so I’ve barely gone on any dates.”
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