From everything she told me, her family seemed fairly well-off, so I asked her in detail why she was doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). She told me she was the child of her father’s mistress.
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That was also why she had a strained relationship with her mother.
I myself had done the same thing as her father, and although I no longer see that woman, I have a child.
For some reason, the moment I found that out, I lost interest. Maybe it’s painful because it brought back my own regrets.
We got along well, but I’m thinking about putting some distance between us.
Given the timing, I’m worried she may think that what she told me about being the child of a mistress is the reason I decided to end things.
Could you advise me on how to break things off with her?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
> Given the timing, I’m worried she may think that telling her she was the child of my mistress was the reason I ended things with her.
As Mac mentioned, if you give her around ¥1 million and then part ways, you may feel less guilty, and there’s also a chance she’ll believe it had nothing to do with what you told her.
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I’m BB7, a male member.
What goes around comes around—sometimes people are brought together in mysterious ways.
Why not try talking to them honestly, since it may just be fate bringing you together? I don’t think it’s such an incredible story that you need to lie about it.
There are all kinds of people in this world.
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Being the child of a mistress doesn’t logically explain why she would be on bad terms with her mother—unless, by some chance, the legal wife raised her? If so, that wife is incredible.
You say a lot of things, but since the fact remains that “telling you she was the child of a mistress was the reason you broke up with her,” I suppose it can’t be helped.
If you asked her all the details and then ended things, at least the girl wouldn’t have to blame herself.
But I do wonder whether the man who ended up in that situation from having unprotected sex with his mistress is using condoms properly now.
That’s what concerns me the most.
Marika
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