I’m a female member who isn’t young anymore.

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Thankfully, I received a valuable offer and am carefully nurturing the relationship. The male member asks me things like, “What kind of hotel would you like to go to?” but I feel too considerate and always end up saying, “I’ll leave it up to you.” Perhaps because I lived an ordinary life for so long, I don’t know how much I’m allowed to say. More than that, I may simply not know what’s out there. When I read the Q&A posts, it seems that young women nowadays are good at letting male members who are ten or even twenty years older spoil them. Or perhaps the men are simply being considerate even without the women acting needy? How can someone like me learn to let a man spoil me gracefully?

Answer 1

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Haha! I’m voting for Marika!

Answer 2

I’m Nana Ayase. “Anywhere is fine” can apparently irritate men who usually have to make a lot of decisions at work. I once got yelled at because I kept saying, “Anywhere is fine,” and “I’ll leave it up to you.” It might be better to share some preferences to a reasonable extent. Though I’d avoid naming somewhere too expensive… If you’re able to stay together for a long time, try relying on him a little more as time goes on. It’s okay—you’ll gradually get more comfortable doing so.

Answer 3

I think it’s fine to just be yourself, awkwardness and all. There’s also a certain cuteness in a young woman acting a little spoiled. More than anything, though, I’d like you to win him over with the charms of a mature woman—little thoughtful gestures, polished manners, and the way you speak. And in bed, be really sexy! That’s exactly the kind of appeal younger women don’t have. Marika

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