Question for the female members: How long after registering did you receive your first offer?

I’m a male member, Chikuwa. Are you sure your profile has already been posted? Why not check that first?

I’m Aya, a female member. I kept my profile secret, but I feel like I started receiving offers within a week of signing up.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well. > I’m a graduate student in my 20s who just registered as Relationship Type B, but even after about a week, I still haven’t received a single offer. With Relationship Type B, there are sometimes staff comments like, “She’s Type B, but basically Type A.” When that’s written, offers tend to stop coming altogether. Something similar happened to a female respondent before. She leaned more toward Type C, but had told the staff that she chose B because turning people down seemed difficult. So she was surprised to see a comment saying otherwise. I don’t know why that particular staff member judged her to be more like Type A, but things like this can happen because of minor communication misunderstandings. Also, since the other staff members haven’t met her, they can’t really know whether that assessment is accurate. And not receiving an offer within one week is actually fairly normal. I think it would be better to wait a little more patiently. > I also marked myself as not wanting to participate in parties. I forgot to mention this, so I’m adding it here. The department that organized parties was disbanded about a year before the COVID pandemic. So basically, there aren’t any parties. They may still ask about it just in case such a department is created again someday. Also, I don’t think this item appears on the profile that men can view. Since the club organizes the parties, displaying that preference wouldn’t really serve a purpose. So whether this is marked as “not allowed” won’t affect the number of offers you receive. That said, there are also dates presented as “dinner gatherings,” involving two men and two women registered with the club. If an offer like that comes in and this option is marked as not allowed, the man may ask, “Could you find me some other women?” But since these dinner gatherings themselves are quite rare, I don’t think this has much impact on offers either. Another possible reason for not receiving offers is that a staff member liked you so much that they placed you in a higher class. There are cases where someone would have received offers as Gold, but gets zero offers because they were placed in Platinum. Men can be pretty particular too. I haven’t actually seen your profile, so I can’t say for sure, but if you’re concerned, you could contact me through the inquiry form below the Q&A box. I might be able to give you some hints about the reason. There are often things I can’t tell you directly, such as your class, but I may still be able to give you a general idea of what’s going on. Another option would be to make a reverse offer to one of the Q&A respondents, saying something like, “Please meet me and tell me what you think the reason is.” I don’t know whether anyone would accept, but if you write another question with more details about yourself, it might catch the interest of one of the male respondents.

That question has been asked to death. Hearing about other people’s offers won’t really help you. I received an offer sometime between leaving the interview, doing some shopping, and getting home—maybe two or three hours later. Apparently, some people even receive offers before their profile is made public. Some people get offers without doing anything, while others don’t. But as for what you can do, I think it’s exactly what Ayase Nana said. And by the way, in the middle of this COVID crisis, there’s no way attending a party would be the deciding factor in receiving an offer. I thought graduate students were supposed to be a little smarter than that. Marika

I’m Ayase Nana, a female member. Please upload 10 selfies. Photos of you walking your dog or out shopping are fine, and since you’re young, swimsuit photos would be nice too. Just upload them for now—the staff can remove anything that isn’t allowed. If you’re free today, get everything ready right away. “Looks great…” For now, send “Looks great” to everyone whose terms match yours. It takes quite a while. Even if you receive an offer, the meeting may not be for another two weeks, so get started soon. Try all sorts of things. Also, do you really expect to receive an offer within a week without doing anything? Are you a blacklisted member? Make sure to fill in your skills and hobbies in detail, too. There are plenty of college students in their twenties. And you’re shy, right? You wouldn’t accept an offer and then get scared and cancel at the last minute, would you? These men are supporting the families of many employees. Please be considerate and don’t be rude when they make time in their schedules to invite you out. I’m sorry for being so harsh. If you just sit back and expect others to do everything for you, you’ll only be wasting your time. You’re young, so I hope you’ll put in your best effort.

I’m date◎yume, a male member. It seems that when offers come in depends partly on luck, so I think it’s best to wait a little longer. As for attending parties and similar events, I think it’s better to participate than not. If you still haven’t received any offers after six months, you may want to reconsider using the dating club.