https:\/\/universe-club.jp\/help\/questions\/view\/7131\r\n↑I’m the person who asked this question. Thank you for your answers.\r\n\r\nKazu\r\nI didn’t just read your answer to question 7130—I also saw question 7127, where someone said they were seriously pressured to go bare. I experience that quite often myself, so I asked because I wondered why. Whenever someone wants to go bare, I always confirm the risks and then ask, “Why do you still want to?” Most of the time, they answer, “I can’t get off or ejaculate unless it’s bare.” That’s why I phrased my question as being about not being able to ejaculate. I’m sorry—I left out too much context.\r\nAfter reading your answer, I had another question. In 7130, you wrote:\r\n> Sometimes I have to bite my lip and think, “If only I could get off when going bare.”\r\nI said that I used the word “ejaculate” based on my own experience, but I also realized that I had assumed that a man getting off meant ejaculating.\r\nIs that not necessarily the case? Women broadly have two ways of getting off—internally and externally—but do men also have ways of climaxing that do and don’t involve ejaculation? If so, I’d love to hear about the differences in sensation and so on. I’d like to use the information to help prevent things from becoming routine.\r\n\r\nRiichi\r\nSo extra training can actually make things worse! I had no idea. I once heard from a papa (a male supporter) that he had developed delayed ejaculation because his masturbation was too intense, but overcame it by practicing with gentler masturbation, so I assumed the same approach might work this time too. The male anatomy is fascinatingly complex.\r\n\r\nMaezawa\r\nYou’re right—I don’t often make the effort to change myself. I’ll try to reflect more on my own behavior before I speak. That said, I absolutely refuse to go bare, so I’ve turned down several men, telling them it was out of the question. They probably spent money on the setting fee, tea and meals, and made an effort to be considerate throughout our conversation before finally reaching the point of negotiating an adult relationship (intimate), only to be bluntly rejected. It felt like such a waste! That’s why I asked whether extra training might help this time. But there are plenty of women, and someone with enough money, time, and emotional leeway probably wouldn’t see it as a waste. That was a shallow way of thinking.