A question for Kazu: In one of your recent answers, you mentioned that some women voluntarily return their transportation money or allowance. How does that come about? I honestly can’t imagine it, but I’m curious and would appreciate it if you could explain.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I didn’t include this in my previous answer because I thought it was beside the point, but I realize you’d like the details. Sorry about that. As for transportation expenses, when I tried to give them to a woman who had sent me a reverse offer through the question box, she said that since she had made the offer, there was no need to cover her transportation. However, I told her, “It’s the rule to provide transportation expenses, so please accept them,” and gave them to her. There have been a few different situations regarding the allowance. For example, after our first date, we went to a hotel room but ended up talking and didn’t have sex, so she offered to return the entire allowance. In other cases, women offered to return part of it because we had less time at the hotel or because I hadn’t ejaculated. One woman I’ve been seeing regularly also once said, “I have enough for this month, so I don’t need anything today.” When the time was short or I hadn’t ejaculated, I accepted the allowance because I don’t think that’s what the allowance is based on. When she said she had enough for the month, I told her, “Then save it.”