Tips May 24, 2021 23:57

As I get older, I worry that I may eventually be unable to get it up and satisfy my favorite girl. It makes me feel sad and distressed. Does anyone else feel this way? How do you cope with those feelings?

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茉莉花
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If he were a papa I truly loved, I’d want to stay by his side even when I got older and could no longer be intimate. I think the worst thing is forcing yourself to try too hard when you really can’t. Marika
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer your question as well. I don’t know how old you are, but there are medications available nowadays, so I don’t think you need to worry too much. And if even medication doesn’t help, you may already be at an age where things like simply walking normally have become difficult, so I don’t think you need to worry that far ahead. Even if you can’t get an erection, you could still enjoy being affectionate in bed. For example, why not simply enjoy having a conversation?
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紙ひこうき
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member. I believe it’s possible—even through a club—to build a relationship where someone will always be by your side for life, whenever you need them. In that kind of relationship, the concerns raised in your question are hardly relevant.
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太郎
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I’m Taro, a male member. Most ordinary people don’t go looking for other women when they’re married. As they get older, they naturally fade, and certainly wouldn’t pursue this kind of thing once they can no longer get it up. I think a normal life means accepting your own aging and finding happiness as you grow old and eventually wither away. Isn’t your current struggle happening because you’re resisting that? The answer is: “Keep resisting.” Whether you can tell anyone about it or whether it looks uncool doesn’t matter. The right thing is to keep struggling. The people answering questions here may seem like kindred spirits, but that’s irrelevant. Everyone grows old alone. Companionship is an illusion; this is ultimately an individual battle. First, develop the mindset to face that. The one thing male members probably all have in common is their “inability to know when to give up,” isn’t it? Once you accept that premise, there should be countless solutions. You can find a compromise through other activities, or even use doping if you want. On the other hand, I hope you’ll keep struggling in various ways too, and create some new innovation.
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I started having trouble getting it up in my thirties, so I had similar thoughts back then. But when you think about it, how often is a penis actually necessary to satisfy a woman? Not that often.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
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I’m in Seattle. They’ll be satisfied as long as you give them money. In fact, some may even prefer it if things don’t get physical. I’m starting to have trouble with that myself, so maybe I’m done for. I’ll switch to enjoying conversation and meals.
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