Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer as well.
> “I’m thinking about making an offer to a second woman.”
That makes me assume you’re a man. As long as you’re not lying to the women—for example, by claiming you’re only seeing one person—I feel that most women generally assume men are seeing multiple women.
What women often find strange is when a man tells them he wants them to be exclusive, while he himself continues seeing other women.
In that sense, I think it’s fairly common, regardless of whether he openly says so.
Some women may even find it helpful if he’s open about it, since then they also feel free to see multiple men.
That said, I imagine about 10% of women may feel uneasy about dating someone who sees several different women.
As long as everyone understands that, I don’t think there’s any problem.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I tell the women I’m seeing that I’m also seeing other women.
Usually, this comes up when I ask whether they have any other papas, since I also share my own situation. Their reactions are generally pretty neutral.
I share as much as they’re willing to share. Some say, “I’m seeing three other people,” while others give a brief profile, such as, “A manufacturing company president in his 50s from Tokyo and a doctor in his 60s from Osaka.” They don’t usually ask for my thoughts when sharing about their other relationships.
If a woman doesn’t seem comfortable opening up, I don’t ask or talk any further about her other relationships. I’m currently seeing four women regularly, and there’s only one whom I neither ask nor talk to about the others.
As the relationship continues, some women will bring up their situation with other partners themselves.
For example, if I don’t finish during intimacy, they may ask how things are with the other women or what the other women do in that situation.
Some women tell me when they receive an offer. Others ask me questions or seek advice about the Universe Club system or how to maintain a relationship with the man who made them an offer. Even when I’m meeting a woman, I sometimes end up acting like someone answering questions in a Q&A forum（笑）.
Also, when arranging our next meeting, if I already have plans with another woman on the date she prefers, I might say, “Sorry, I already have plans with another woman that day.”
Sometimes the conversation simply continues with, “Then how about the ○th?” Other times, she may comment, “You’ve been seeing her a lot lately,” or, “It’s been a while since you saw that girl, hasn’t it?”
I hope this was helpful.
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
If you’re honest from the start, I don’t think there should be any problem.
Very occasionally, you’ll meet women who insist that both sides can only have one partner. Those women will make that clear from the beginning, so as long as you don’t pursue an arrangement with them, there shouldn’t be an issue.
Personally, I do build relationships with multiple partners, but I’m not the type who can do that openly with everyone’s consent. So I don’t volunteer that information, and I generally don’t ask about it either.
