Anonymous question boxes really are a world of their own, aren’t they?
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The male respondents who are incredibly wealthy, and the female respondents who are gorgeous.
I try not to look too much because it brings my mood down, but I still want to catch a glimpse of that world high above the clouds, so I can’t help peeking.
I’m probably a woman in my twenties, Gold, Type C.
I do receive offers, but I’ve never been offered more than an allowance of 2 or 3. And when I hear people talking about 10,000 yen in transportation expenses for a setting date, I’m like, “What world are they talking about?” In my case, it’s always 5,000 yen. Maybe I’m actually Standard.
Why would men make offers to someone like me, whom they apparently consider so cheap, even though they came to a dating club?
For my part, I say that I’m hoping for 5, but so many of them start lecturing me. They say things like, “You’re not worth that much.” I don’t want them to get furious, so I usually apologize for the time being and smooth things over, but it still bothers me. Why is that? Surely there are women in the same class who are prettier than me and worth much more…
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well.
> I’m hoping for 5, so I tell them that, but so many people start lecturing me.
They really need to stop with the lectures.
I honestly don’t see what purpose it serves. It’s the worst when someone arbitrarily decides your worth and demands that you explain what makes you worth that much.
If they can’t afford it, they should simply say, “That’s beyond what I can pay. I’m sorry.” Being rude to a woman who went out of her way to meet them is unacceptable.
If you’re asking for 5, I think it would be perfectly fine to say the moment the lecture starts:
“If 5 isn’t possible, may I leave instead?”
Since the man might file a complaint, you could say you need to use the restroom and step away, then ask the club for help:
“I told him my desired allowance, but he started lecturing me and I’m not sure what to do. May I consider the date over?”
Leaving without telling anyone could lead to a complaint, so it’s a hassle, but it’s better to wait for the club’s instructions.
If the club is already closed, I think you should send them a LINE message reporting what happened, then inform the man as well before leaving.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
As I’ve said openly before, I’m from a high school that wasn’t exactly known for its high academic standards, and I’m one of the poor guys at the dating club（笑）
> Why would a man make an offer to a woman he considers so cheap, when he’s come to a dating club?
I think it’s simply because he doesn’t need a high-priced woman.
> I’m sure there must be women in the same class who are prettier and more valuable than me…
That may well be true, but I think the man made an offer because he preferred you to those prettier, more valuable women.
In that sense, you can take it as meaning that he sees you as “even more valuable” than women who are conventionally beautiful and valuable.
Also, if you find yourself thinking, “This allowance is way too low for me,” you can always decline the arrangement.
You shouldn’t force yourself into a relationship. Unless both people can enjoy it and benefit from it, it will only be difficult for both of you.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
There’s no end to comparing yourself to people above you. Focus on developing your strengths, then fully play up a look and personality that match them—you’ll find people who are drawn to you. In manga and anime, even minor characters always have their fans, right?
My papa (a male supporter) absolutely adores me, though there may also be people who call me ugly or creepy. To men who prefer female college students, I’m probably out because I’m already working. But I’m not trying to be liked by everyone, so it doesn’t bother me at all.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
First of all, this question sounds suspicious. You’re saying that the people you’ve met have given you extremely low ratings, yet you still receive a fair number of offers, right? How is that supposed to work?
I also don’t understand what you’re basing the claims on that the male respondents are all extremely wealthy and the female respondents are all beautiful. I’m not saying that’s necessarily untrue. In fact, the female respondents here must all be beautiful. Isn’t that obvious? Please don’t say such rude things. Still, it’s strange that someone with no personal ties to anyone here—and who hasn’t met them or seen their incomes or assets—can say that so definitively.
It makes me wonder whether you’re also asking about your own problems while building up assumptions that are far removed from reality. First, try to look at the situation objectively. If this truly is an extremely unusual situation, you should discuss the specifics with the club staff. Without concrete details, it’ll be difficult to identify the cause.
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