I have a question about the best time to register.
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I’m a married woman in my mid-30s with two children—one who is a year and a half old and another who hasn’t started school yet.
I assume I’ll receive the most offers soon after registering, and I don’t want to miss that opportunity.
If I were to receive several offers shortly after registering, I think it would be difficult to make time while my children are still so young (I’m planning to leave them with family or use temporary childcare), so I’m wondering whether I should wait until my younger child starts kindergarten before getting started.
However, by then I’ll be almost 40.
Should I just register now without overthinking it, or, considering that we’re still dealing with COVID, would it be better to wait two or three years and register then so I don’t miss my chance?
Thank you in advance.
Maezawa from the president’s office here, answering as well.
> Since it’s probably difficult to make time while I have small children, I’m planning to leave them with family or use temporary childcare.
If it’s difficult for you to make time, I don’t think there’s much point in registering in the first place.
On the other hand, if you can leave your children with family or use temporary childcare, then it seems you’d be able to accept offers. In that case, registering now and responding to offers should be feasible.
I think the key point here is whether or not you can actually make the time.
Once you’ve figured that out, you’ll also be able to decide whether it’s better to register right away or wait until later.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
If you’re thinking about signing up, that’s your chance to do it. No one knows when the “best” time is. If we did, we wouldn’t have to struggle so much.
The one thing I can say is that the longer you wait, the more you yourself deteriorate.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
May I ask why you’re considering registering even though you have a young child who’s only a year and a half old? I’m curious—sorry—what makes you want to register despite the risks of catching something through dining with men, your husband finding out, and the potential impact on your little child. If you’re in serious financial difficulty, I can understand that waiting three years may not be an option, but from the way you worded your question, it sounds like waiting is still a possibility…?
If you’re set on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), how about trying to register with Universe first, even if it’s a long shot, and then joining another dating club in two or three years? Or you could start with a different club first—the order doesn’t really matter.
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