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May 3, 2021 14:13
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When we got to the hotel and he undressed, I was shocked. Not just one—there were ten.
At first, I mistook them for some kind of STI and hesitated to give him oral, but he proudly said, “Amazing, right? There aren’t many men with ten of them.”
To make matters worse, he penetrated me without a condom, saying that he couldn’t wear one because of the pearls.
I repeatedly told him, “I’m scared of having sex without a condom. Please stop. I’ll do it with my mouth instead.” But he insisted, “It’s fine! I’ve never had an STI, and I’ve never gotten anyone pregnant!” I was overwhelmed by the situation and ended up letting him finish inside me without a condom.
The pearls didn’t make it feel good at all. If anything, they hurt, and I was terrified.
When I asked how other women had reacted, he once again spoke proudly, saying they had all been surprised. Apparently, one woman even suffered an injury and started bleeding. He just said, “If anything feels wrong, go to a gynecologist right away! It’ll heal quickly.”
What? Is that really the point—that it will heal quickly? Wouldn’t he cover the medical expenses? I couldn’t help feeling anxious.
On top of that, the man got carried away and said he wanted to stay overnight at the hotel.
Because it was an out-of-town arrangement, he had booked a hotel for me in advance. But I had never been told that he would be staying with me too, and the atmosphere made it difficult to refuse...
We spent the night there, and, as expected, he initiated things again after waking up. He then went straight to work.
Despite staying overnight and having a second round, my allowance was not increased from the amount we had originally agreed on.
This was the worst offer I’ve ever had.
I’m hurt and upset, and I’m even thinking about quitting Universe.
I hesitated because it was an out-of-town offer, but I accepted after the club encouraged me by saying, “He’s a very friendly and gentlemanly man!” All I feel now is outrage.
I’ve never complained to the club before, but I’m considering reporting him because I don’t want other women to go through the same thing.
However, I’m not sure whether any of his actions technically violate the rules, so I didn’t know how to report it, and time has passed.
This was my first time having unprotected sex, and I’m worried, so I’ve been tested for STIs and am waiting for the results. I feel bad for my other monthly supporters, but I’ve had to suspend my activities until then.
How should I report this to the club so that it will be handled as a complaint?
I would appreciate any advice.
2 answers
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Even from a man’s perspective, it sounds like you ended up with an exceptionally awful man. Some of his actions may even constitute a crime, so please report him to the club first.
We sometimes see questions from people who’ve encountered terrible papas (male supporters), but if someone does something unpleasant against your wishes, your first step should be to report it to the club.
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Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer as well.
First, report only the facts to the club.
Something along these lines should work:
“I told him several times to stop because I was afraid of having sex without a condom, but he did it anyway. He withdrew, but I’m worried about pregnancy and STIs.
Because this was a long-distance arrangement, he had arranged a hotel for me in advance, but he ended up staying there with me, which made me uncomfortable.
He had ten pearl-like beads attached to his penis, which frightened me. I became worried that he might be affiliated with an organized crime group.”
I’m not quite sure I understand the hotel situation. Normally, the hotel where you have sex and the hotel where you stay are supposed to be booked separately. Do you mean that part was fine, but he followed you all the way to your hotel?
If so, tell the front desk that you don’t want him accompanying you to your room. If he still tries to follow you, explain the situation to the hotel staff. They’ll probably help.
If you don’t want to make it into a major incident, you should contact the club right away. However, since it may be outside the club’s business hours, no one may answer.
Even so, try calling just in case. If a staff member answers, they’ll probably warn the man.
If you absolutely can’t forgive him, another option is to file a complaint for rape.
In that case, you need to go to the police immediately and have them collect any small amount of bodily fluid remaining inside the vagina so that evidence can be preserved.
If you also have lacerations there, a charge for causing bodily injury may be added as well.