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Apr 24, 2021 09:21
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At first, I was enjoying myself so much that it didn’t bother me. But when I started looking at things from the women’s perspective, I began to feel pressured, wondering whether women in any class would expect a higher allowance when approached by a Black-class man. I’ve never talked about this with any of the women I’ve dated because I was afraid to.
Until now, I shared the view of people like Mac and Kazu that the allowance should be the same regardless of the woman’s class. Aside from the few women who clearly stated an amount, I generally offered just a little more than the Platinum offer fee.
However, because of this pressure, especially with Black-class women, I’ve started wondering whether it would be inappropriate not to pay an allowance commensurate with the class of the offer. To be honest, I also find myself somewhat concerned about the image of the club that introduced me.
Of course, I have a budget and can’t spend money I don’t have, and the allowance is something that should be decided between the people involved. Still, do the respondents here remain consistent in their thinking on this, or has it ever wavered? I’d really appreciate hearing about the experiences that led you to your current views.
Sorry to bother everyone on a Saturday morning, and thank you in advance.
4 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
> Of course, I have a budget, so I can’t give what I don’t have.
In that case, you only need to tell her your budget. I don’t see why you should feel pressured.
If she wants more, it’s perfectly fine to end things after dinner only (no intimacy).
There’s no need to go beyond your limits.
フラグメーカー
Male
Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Whether it’s work or anything else, I value not having a fixed approach and being constantly inconsistent. It may be hard to explain, but in a sense, being inconsistent is the one thing I’m consistent about.
Everything is a judgment based on the person in front of me, my mood and feelings, and other factors. If I feel I want to move things forward, I’ll pay the woman whatever she asks.
The reason is that I believe forcing this kind of thinking into a set formula can make you miss out on opportunities and experiences. That includes failures, not just successes. I’m not focused solely on making things work—I want to build up experience.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Do you currently have a favorite girl?
What kind of woman would be your ideal?
And what kind of papa would be your ideal?
Do you want to favorite one of the few women who clearly state their allowance?
Or do you want to date a woman who cares about the allowance?
Since this is a club, it’s possible to have the kind of relationship you ideally want—or even something beyond your ideal. I can’t say for certain whether she’ll be your ideal woman, but an ideal relationship in every way is possible.
To achieve that, you’ll never reach true satisfaction if your actions and thinking keep wavering.
Also, regarding:
> It was just the standard Platinum offer fee.
I think you should consider whether you can really have an ideal relationship under those terms.
You may have been unsure at first, but it’s been almost a year now, hasn’t it?
As a man, you may find a favorite girl you’d be willing to spend any amount of money on.
And as a woman, you may find a favorite papa who makes you feel that it was never really about the money.
I hope you both find that kind of connection.
Please picture the kind of relationship you’re looking for.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m also a male member who joined just under a year ago—my name is Kazu.
Based on the women I’ve offered to meet, I don’t think their allowance expectations vary depending on the man’s membership class.
If anything changes, I think it’s the woman’s own expectations of her class(笑). So if she believes she belongs to a higher class, her allowance expectations may change because of that ridiculous class-based allowance chart for women.
I’ve explained how I arrived at my own way of thinking in my answer to this question:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/6540
As for whether I ever waver, the women I met after offering to meet them during my first or second month of membership have continued seeing me, even though they’ve received a fair number of offers since then, so I have no doubts. On the contrary, when I do waver, it feels like I’m betraying the women who have treated me so well.
I hope this helps.
P.S.
Come to think of it, there’s another experience that gave me even more confidence in my usual allowance: a woman I met through the salon. Even though she gets so many arrangements through the salon that it’s like, “The limit is 30 male members—how can there be that many!?” she still sees me for my usual allowance.
I only continue seeing women who ask about arranging our next meeting, and she also asks me, “When would be convenient for you next?”