I’m Taro, a male member.
Come on, you really don’t get jokes, do you? You’ve raised the bar ridiculously high, so it’s hard to answer now, haha.
I’ve read your question several times, and you do have an amount in mind, right? Then you should state it. If you already have a preferred amount, I don’t understand why you’d leave it up to the other person by saying, “I’ll leave it up to you.” Just going with the flow and expecting things to turn out exactly as you want is fantasy.
And if you want not only money but also someone who genuinely wants to support you, then you should go all in. State your desired amount—the real challenge begins after the arrangement starts. Don’t just push; sometimes pull back, sometimes set little traps, and judge from their reactions whether they’re the real deal. If you want the future you envision, I think you need to put in that much effort and work through all the complications.
I don’t think people fall for someone that easily. You might think a woman is attractive based on her looks, sure. We’re intimate because that’s what this kind of arrangement involves, but honestly, at first it’s just desire and curiosity. For women, it’s about the money. Both sides are getting something. But a lot of people think reaching an agreement and becoming intimate is the finish line. If that’s all it is, it becomes no different from a commercial sexual service.
That’s what I mean by the starting line. Things are awkward at first because you’re being intimate with someone you don’t even like yet. The question is whether you can acknowledge that and move forward. You’d want to move forward, wouldn’t you? After all, you’ve shared a deeper kind of relationship than you normally would.
But if you start thinking, “So I get paid this much for something like this?” or “That’s it? What a disappointment,” then I think something’s off.
Sorry, I got drunk while thinking this through and ended up rambling, haha. Next time, please ask something a little easier, lol.
